If you found out as an adult that you were adopted and your birth mother was someone you have met before. Prior meetings were on a professional level. Neither knowing who the other really was. (e.g. Doctor and patient). Your life as an adopted child was not good....How would you react? What if her reasoning was to pursue a career? This is just hypothetical, but please give me some input.
2006-10-19 13:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I think that you should sit down and talk to your birth mother and have her explain why she had given you up for adoption,and really try to listen. Everyone has reasons for doing things,and you may not like what she has to say,but she is still your birth mother,and I think you should both try to find a way to have a relationship between you two. Be honest with her,and tell her your feelings about being put up for adoption,etc., and if you both are honest with yourselves and each other,I think you two may be able to find a way to resolve these feelings. Good luck!
2006-10-19 13:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by roses are red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back when I was in my early 20's, I did a lot of dumb stuff. These actions made sense at the time, but in hindsight, I shouldn't have done them.
Am I unusual? No.
2006-10-19 20:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by l00kiehereu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is one of those people who should never have children. She is only thinking of herself. No room for anyone but herself.
2006-10-19 20:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kerilyn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hold no ill will towards her, since I would have probably done the same thing.
2006-10-19 20:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋