so confused..?

Question

i know ever one is probably tired about hearing girls ask if a guy likes her or not.
so, sorry.
anyways....
so my guy friend was just dumped by his girl friend,of 3 weeks, last week. he is starting to act like he likes me, but i'm not sure. i'll tell you what he does:
1. walks me to class
2. sits with me when on trips
3. smiles at me
4. lets me wear his hoodie when i am cold
5. tickles me a lot
6. puts his arms around me
and other things.
he doesn't really talk to his ex, if she can even be considered one after only 3 weeks, anymore. i'm not sure, if he likes me, doesn't like me, or is on the rebound. so from this can you tell if he likes me, or if he is on the rebound?

Answer 1

Hmm, when I started reading this question, the one word that popped up in my head before i had even finished it was rebound. But that wasn't fair on my part. So gomen nasai (I'm very sorry).

Ok,.it does seem that he likes you. And if you guys are already friends, then there's a connection between you two. Trust. Which usually takes people a long time to build up.

So that part's done. But now you have to ask yourself a lot of things. Does he really likes you, if you like him, and if you want to risk your friendship if you two start dating.

Well, if you really like him, and you are sure that he likes you, then go for it! Your friendship could get stronger and you two may become much closer.

So try talking to him for a while, and find out if he likes you. Maybe you could get a friend to help? Your call though. But be careful, and make sure that he really does like you, and isn't just on the rebound because he was dumped.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

Do you want a friend or a boyfriend?

First, this is a REALLY common situation. Many, many friends become closer and closer and then start thinking about dating. It's the ideal way to start a relationship, because all relationships should be based on trust, honesty and communication - something friends have built in. An ideal relationship is between best friends who love each other.

Both people worry about risking the friendship, which is very important to both of them. When you are alone with your friend you need to be honest about the feelings you are begining to have.

BUT what do YOU want?

Your friend will either be uncomfortable if these changes are too much, or your friend will be happy that you are moving even closer together. If your friend is happy, then you're all set, and keep moving along!

Answer 3

I would say that he does like you. But be careful of that rebound. Guy's show affections like this to a lot of girls when they have been burned. If it is only you that he is showing this affection to than you are in a good spot. Be careful though, he was with this girl for three years and feelings for that other person can't go away. He may think he likes you for you but in deep he misses his girl and you make him feel good so he is treating you with these actions.

Answer 4

I would say yes he likes you. but what you gotta ask yourself is that is it worth ruining a friendship if you start dating and things dont work out. Sorry I know Im answering a question with a question, but i think this is something alot of girls dont think about when they start dating friends.

Answer 5

He totally likes you or he is just trying to get his evil ex jealous. I think that tht first one goes best with this situation. Try not to listen to the people who tell you to play hard to get because, believe me, IT DOESN'T WORK!!! It all depends if you like him. If you like him in that "way", then you should start hanging out with him. NOW IS YOUR CHANCE TO STEAL HIS HEART! If you don't like him in that "way", then just kind of "ignore" it. He also may be just doing those things to you because he wasn't able to do them before because his evil ex told him to not to. He IS your friend, right? Go get em' tiger!

Answer 6

ehhh this IS realllly confusinggggggg. i think you should watch out and make sure hes not just trying to make your friend jelous, and also remember that friendsss are moreeee imporantt that *****. so all im sayingg iss watch out.

but by the looks of things, hes into youu

Answer 7

Okay, this is huge. Seriously, you luckey chick.

Okay, I think he's into you, or considering it. Be careful, he might just be physically attracted to you ecspeccially if your pretty. Anyways, be aware of that, but he's a total potential. My advice? Check his pupils. You know, the black dots in his eyes? If they're big, he's into you. Never failed me!!

Answer 8

Trust me he likes you. Play hard to get for awhile. That way you can protect yourself just in case he still has feelings for his ex.

Answer 9

Its sounds a little like rebound but he might seriously like you. give it another week and see if he still acts like this. and if he does tell him how u feel. at least ask. cuz if u dont then u migh never know wat culd of happend.