If you found out as an adult that you were adopted and your birth mother was someone you have met before. Prior meetings were on a professional level. Neither knowing who the other really was. (e.g. Doctor and patient). Your life as an adopted child was not good....How would you react? What if her reasoning was to pursue a career? This is just hypothetical, but please give me some input.
2006-10-19 13:42:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
We can never, never, never, bring our past to the present time. I am sure at the time, she did what she felt was best for herself and her child. I doubt a day goes by that she doesn't wonder about her child, that she had to give up as a baby. When the child's birthday comes around, I am sure, that she wishes, that things could have been different. The Present is all that we have to work with. I would encourage the child, to talk to his Mother, try to have a relationship now and leave the hurtful past behind.
2006-10-19 13:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive watched a similar situation like this on home and away tv soap from australia where the baby was born but the grandparents told the mother the baby was stillborn and then 18 years later she turns up looking for her mother and finds her with the grandmother who sold her to adoptive parents only thing was the mothers mother hadn,t told daughter her real daughter was in town and when it came out who the mother was she went ballistic as she had been having run ins with her since she had arrived in town the young girl decided to leave town and she told the two women she despised them both one for keeping her real mums id a secret . and the real mother threw her mother out for telling her baby was dead at birth.
theres a lot of bridges to build in this relationship with mother and daughter and granddaughter i guess the moral of the story is when you go out into the big wild world be prepared for knock backs and long days and nights of just talking and listening before you make an opinion of how the real parents turned out . hard to say as the lady in the soap has two kids now but had a career before the second one turned up she could hardly be blamed if she thought her baby had died years ago and then suddenly appears like a ghost on your doorstep,
id be shocked suprisded and would be curious about my roots .
2006-10-19 20:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by justmaz2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you take it and say to your self... Ill show the world im still somebody. and be your best. its YOUR life you'd be wasting being sad over it. the other people involve have.
My mom and dad split then when me and my brother was like 25 then my mom told my brother that the dad he had lived with all his life was not his real dad BUT she wasnt gonna tell him who the real dad was. my brother after much emotional rollercoaster over a year or so come to a conclusion that the man that had raised him( which knew he wasnt the dad) was truely his dad because cared to raise him like his own and was prepared to go to the grave without revealling it .
2006-10-19 20:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by michael f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously would be Pi.s.s.ed off as hell.............I don't find that a legitimate reason to put your child up for adoption. Especially if the adoptive parents were not good parents.
2006-10-19 20:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Arvizu16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a contened adult at this point in your life, stay that way. If you feel you can seek and find more contentment and happiness in your endeavor, then go for it; otherwise stay put and leave well enough alone.
2006-10-19 21:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by emmitkapoofnik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past, you can't change it. You could be bitter but honestly what good would that do. You could be depressed, same thing it isn't going to help. pick yourself up and keep fighting. try and build a relationship now.
2006-10-19 21:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Red Yeti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'll leave it be as i can't change the past and it's best to look forward to my life and not make the same mistake(?) as my birth mother but pour our all my love to my own children.
2006-10-19 20:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Totoru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need to ask her why she did it ?? Maybe she thought she was giving you a better life ..You would need to ask her then go from there Good luck.
2006-10-19 20:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on with my life.
2006-10-19 20:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, thank God she (birth mother) gave me life. she could have opted for an abortion.
also, as bad as life might seem to me, i know it could be worse. i know some do have it worse. i thank God for what i have. and i pray for others.
2006-10-19 20:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by SallyC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋