what would u do?

Question

IF UR FRIEND CURSED YOUR MOM OUT....U HAVE HAD A FALLING OUT AND SHE GETS RUDE W/ IR MOM, WHO IN TURN TREATED HER AS A DAUGHTER, SHE CAME BACK AND APOLOGIZED BUT U STILL FEEL EMPTY INSIDE, WHAT WOULD U HAVE DONE OR WHAT WOULD U DO? TWO MONTHS HAD PASSED AND U FORGAVE THEM, NOW IT WAS OVER A YEAR AGO AND U ARE STILL UPSET B/C THAT WAS TOTAL DISRESPECT ON HER PART. WOULD U JUST END THE FRIENDSHIP ALTHOUGH IT WAS SO LONG AGO OR WOULD U "FEED HER W/ A LONG HANDLED SPOON?"

Answer 1

I'm not sure that she would have been my friend after the incident occurred. Did your mom forgive her, find out. If she does, then maybe you shouldn't stress it. Its kinda too late to try and figure out how you feel, but you feel that way for a reason. She crossed the line and that's that. Like the saying goes, you can forgive, but not forget.

Answer 2

How does your mom still feel about it? If she has let bygones be bygones you should to. There is no reason to let this ruin a good friendship if it has been forgiven by the two people tht were truly involved...if you still feel hurt then just talk to her and tell her that what she did was very disrespectful...if she is a true friend she will understand and listen.

Answer 3

People say the wrong things when they are mad. If you had no other incidence since over a year, then you need to forget about it. poeple make mistakes. Did you ever think what kind of pain your friend must have been in at the time or what she was going through. Maybe some things were going on in her life she never talked about.

Answer 4

Umm, well I can understand why you would be pretty upset, but if she is really sorry and your mom isn't affected or still upset about it, then i think maybe you should let what happened in the past, stay in the past.

But it's up to you.

Answer 5

Keep your distance for now. If you're having a hard time healing, that's your issue, not hers and she shouldn't be subjected to your hard feelings even though she already apologised a long time ago.

Answer 6

It's obvious you haven't forgiven if you can't get past it. That's your inner voice warning you not to. If someone shows that much disrespect for your mother, then they are someone you need to ask yourself if you want to be friends with. Move on

Answer 7

da insident was more of a betrayal to u.u can never trust her again after dat.it hurt u more dan u realised,u need counceling.u had a traumatic situation.u need to make her realise dat she hurt u realy bad.it has got nothing 2do wit yo mom.yo friend also needs help.

Answer 8

If you forgave her, why is it still tearing you up? You need to talk to this girl and clear the air.

Answer 9

You should have ended it then. Actions are something you usually can forget, but words stay with you always.

Answer 10

Forgive and forget