that if you only 13 you can not be in love? i beleive that at any age you can find love. is it true? do you think just because you think you love someone you parents should tell you to brake up with him because its geting to serius? because you love him? i dont know what too do? Pleas help!
2006-10-19 13:20:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no one really knows when they are in love. its a chemistry between two people sometimes you can feel it in the gut and sometimes its just gas. anyway you could be in love at the age of 13 but you havent experienced life and the many boys to come along. so dont move too quickly before its time to make a move
2006-10-19 13:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blondie,
I understand that in your world today this feeling of love is very strong, and you think it will last forever. But the fact is that you are only 13. Your body and mind are still growing into what is going to become a woman some day. The hormones in your system make every sensation much more intense than it actually is. What you are feeling could be an infatuation that is perfectly normal and fun, but by no means rational or lasting. Because your parents know that, they are concerned. My advice: use your head. Do not think that you are ready for romantic relationship because you mentally and phsychologically are not yet--and that is just a biological fact. Sorry. Enjoy your friends and pals, but leave love for later, for the time when you are actually capable to truly appreciate it and handle it with maturity.
P.S. and, oh, clean up that grammar, yeah?
2006-10-19 20:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are only 13, first off. You may feel strong emotions, but its not love. You MAY be in love with the idea of him, but @ 13, you really shouldn't be getting serious with any guy, and I should know, I'm a 17 year old guy. As far as your parents go, you shouldn't let them rule your life, just guide you. Is this guy much older or something? Cuz thats never good.
2006-10-19 20:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Donny B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can love a guy at 13 but don't love him enough to have sex w/ him because that's to young but why do your parents want you to brake up with him? is he rude or mean? but don't get serous enough to have sex with him? OK? when of my friends thought she was in love w/ this one guy but all he wanted was sex so she was 14 when she lost her virginity and she has a kid now who is 6 and once the guy found out she was pregnant he left her so just be careful don't make the same mistakes as her
2006-10-20 17:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Just another pretty face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love can come at any age. But with todays life span, at 13 you could look at 80 years together, boy that is frighting.
I am 20 and I am friend with all my ex's but I am not ready for a serious relationship..Why you ask..
- I want to live and travel.
- I want to have no one to answer to for a few years, no parents or serious boy friend.
- I would like to have fun and flirt with other boys, Boy that is fun
- I want to go places with my girl friends
I dont want to worry about....
his bills
washing his clothes
cooking his dinner
having his friend over or tagging along
i want a man to love and CARE for me
And bring be flowers --that means he has a JOB
I want to grow, change and explore life before I settle down
No matter what you say he is still a boy. his mom cooks, cleans pays his bills and washes his clothes
2006-10-19 20:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents are always like that they are just caring for you and worryin for you i mean they dont want you to get hurt cuz you are way to in to it and stuff and yea of course i agree about you about the part you can fall in love at any age any time but i think you shouldnt make him your everything cuz you can might loose him one day
2006-10-19 20:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by ..::pimpin azn grl::.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been n a situation like thiz b 4 & i no it iznt rele, well, not @ age 13! im n 8th grade now so i wood no
2006-10-19 20:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may think it is love, but it isn't. emotions and hormones don't = LOVE. you have a long life to live, and many people to "love". and listen to your parents...they are usually right. :) (and no...i'm not a parent)
2006-10-19 20:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by older and wiser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
2006-10-19 20:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋