group, and we meet twice a month for fellowship, craft, and we also have a special speaker (usually a minister, physician, or other professionals who can share insights with us). There are about 20 of us - some who knew each other before, but most did not. One woman uses this time to vent her personal issues about her husband, constantly griping and complaining, and having a negative response to every helpful suggestion made. I think she doesn't so much as want any help than she wants people to feel sorry for her. That is not what these meetings were intended for. We all have our problems, and we all have to deal with them. And some things should only be shared within a close friend circle - or with a counselor - not with everybody who happens to be in earshot! She monopolizes the conversations and manages to always get the focus back on all of her problems if we do happen to change the subject. What would you do in my situation?
2006-10-19 13:17:53 · 3 answers · asked by shellbugger 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Several of you will have to meet her privately (an intervention) and tell her that personal issues are not appropriate for this group. Good luck.
2006-10-19 13:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As this participant isn't helping the group, she should be asked to leave. If the majority of the group feels the same way you do, then the group's interest should come before the individual's interest, and the individual should be advised to shape up or ship out.
2006-10-19 13:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could invite a marriage guidance councellor to your next meeting. Remember what happens when you get a group of women together - all does not run smoothly.
2006-10-19 13:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋