ok my husband we are seperated cheated with some girl he works with........has sinced moved out (i threw him out because he wouldnt quit when affair was discovered)..............anyway i just found out he quit that job is still living with the gf......in fact moved to a nicer area then the one we did a nicer place etc etc....how can he do all this without remorse or guilt im serious.....he knew i loved him and still he did this........does anyone havea logical answer
2006-10-19 12:54:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, he is in love with someone else. He has moved on and so should you.
2006-10-19 13:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is he is a man. Men do stupid things without guilt or remorse all the time. Men do not know how to use their brains God gave them which is obvious by all the trouble in the world today. Your best bet would be to sue him for divorce and everything you are legally entitled to and move on and forget this male pig!
2006-10-19 20:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just married a bad seed. He will eventually do the same thing with the woman he is with now. I will tell you this only because I know from experience from my first husband. Stay as busy as you can so your mind will stay off of him. Try to better yourself as much as you can. Start living life for you and your children (that is if you have any.) Start going out and having fun. There are plenty of good seeds out there you just need to keep your eyes open. Good luck
2006-10-20 00:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lost a connection with you.
He found it with someone else, but failed to let you know.
He moved on.
I have plenty of ex-girlfriends that I don't think about because I've moved on. Many men think guilt is a wasted emotion. We learned our lesson and move on. The only time we would have to deal with guilt is if we stayed in the relationship and had to earn back trust. He's with his gf now. He never lost her trust.
Feel for you.
2006-10-19 20:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have a penis? if yes then theres ur answer lol...seriously it depresses me how much is about cheating on here..the world really sucksnow its like cheating is about to be common in every marriage and eventually will just be accepted as normal...gross......not in my marriage....divorce him and take him for all what hes worth if he can give her a high class life he needs to pay u and tell the court he moved to a better place with her and stuff they'llmake him pay
2006-10-19 20:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a pervert. I wouldn't worry about what he does. There's no logical explanation for his behavior. You just need to move on. (that was not said in a mean way)
2006-10-19 19:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man cheats on his partner, it's almost always because the other gal is better in bed. Take this seriously.
2006-10-19 19:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by DV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all he quit his job does loser ring a bell, see any red flags yet. Get the divorce, move on if he did it to you he'll do it to her when it doesn't work w/her because of infidelity, he'll come beggin 4 u to take him back put him on the streets.
2006-10-19 20:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just let it go instead of dwelling on it and feeling self pity.
You're separated. That means it's done and over. That's it, that's all. End of story.
2006-10-19 20:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably fell out of love with you, I mean obviously he must not love you or care enough about you to consider your feelings. Let it go & find yourself someone younger & hotter!
2006-10-19 20:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by Reckless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋