I feel like my husband doesn't love me as much as he use to...?

Question

Me and my husband have been married for 3 years.. I’ve always tried to be a great wife to him, no matter what happened he was always first. In the past 3 years I have always had dinner waiting for him when he got home NO MATTER WHAT. (All he does is work). I work, go to school,study, take care of the house etc. When I ask him to help me do something I get the 3rd degree and usually ends up in a argument leading to us not talking for about a week. I don’t know what to do anymore I love him but I’m just tired of him not appreciating what I do and I just wished for once he would put me first for a change. Sometimes I feel like he doesn’t even care how I feel, which hurts me and causes me to get really stressed out.. ---

Anybody have any advice…

Answer 1

Have you talked to him about it?? That seems like the easiest solution to me.

Answer 2

I used to behave in very much the same way as your husband does to you know. I used to take my wife for granted argue about silly little things and snap and say very hurtfull things that i simply did not mean. I can not comment on your husbands predicament but you say he works long hours all the time which in its self can be very stress full. Encourage him to talk about his day but at the same time remind him how stress full yours has been to. Try to make quality time for each other if you are both tired take an early night together remember what is special about the pair of you sometimes a reassuring embrace helps if things persist and do not get any better start doing things for yourself but do not place any doubt into is mind of anything untoward just look after yourself he will soon start to relies what he has in you and will see your point of view the key to your marriage is that you love him does he tell it to you. He is obviously keen to impress working so many hours is this for financial reasons if not book a break surprise him and make sure he looks after you if he does not as i did not with my wife he will drive you away and i hope he does not

Answer 3

Have you told him about this without arguing? Have a heart to heart talk with him (without any arguments) about the way you feel. Let him know that you want the marriage to work. Listen to each other and figure out what you all can do different to make things better. I recommend that you all find time to play(it can be done).The reason I say you all need to find time to play because you said that you work, clean, cook, go to school etc. and your husband just work. My dear, this sounds like a boring relationship. Take one weekend and go out or take a trip in other words do something that you both want to do. You do not have to take a trip 5, 6 or more hours away but just to get away every now and then. My husband works 2 jobs and I work full time, clean, cook (sometimes) and I go to school part-time and we pick a weekend or sometimes 2 weekends out of the month to spend time together. Couples have to keep their marriage alive, exciting and interesting. Plan dates with each other even if it just to watch a movie at home and enjoy. Good Luck

Answer 4

most men after a while of marriage treat wife as an object in the house, prove that your are not an object but "be careful! " without argument! just try to make him little bit(no more) jealous(if he can) forget a while about doing house work, just try to attract him, be more playful! and go away home frequently such reasons visiting your parents or relatives, or go to tour in another city/state(not more than 1week)(you can turn back early saying you missed him and home after few times)

Answer 5

you are obviously very unhappy. you need to let him know what is going on in your head and heart. If he is willing to go with you get counseling, even if he is not you may want to go by yourself. I am sorry to say that if something does not change you probably do not have much of a chance.

Answer 6

ew, is he a Capricorn? Can't change him honey believe me I have tried.

Answer 7

Dump him...