I have not had one, but i said i did so i need help. i know it is wrong, but it is what it is. Maybe their is a web site where i can go to for help
2006-10-19 12:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by bossy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why do you need to show him? If you are going to lie to him and disrespect him maybe it is time to move on. Pregnant or not.
2006-10-19 12:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
look, dis What u do, you gather all ya facts about an abortion and were it was done at..( was suppose to be done at) and you tell him what kind of man ask for proof, "im emotional right now, i just had to get rid of a child." bring out the actress in you. tear up if you can. The average man wont want to hear any more about emotions. But if not then start to tell him the facts, what kind of an abortion? Did you take the pill or was it a Vacuum abortion. how long did it take...(do the research) if you really want to be with this guy then do what you gotta do. but don't make if seem like research get into it, make it believable, storm out on him if you have to, he'll come chasing with apologizes and not talk about it any more. even making a fact document would help with the clinics name on top and every thing. you should probably go in to get a preg test and ask for the documents saying that your not, then go to kinkos or something and change the info. gurl get creative wit it. hope dat helps u.
2006-10-19 19:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by *~*Lady_bug*~$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Microsoft Word and get some sort of document template that you can use to draft a consent form. Create some sort of logo for the clinic to use as letterhead. Then have it ask for your signature at the bottom, and sign and date it.
Or you could just leave him. I totally know that this is easier said than done, but he should not be forcing you to get an abortion against your will. Anyhow, he will find out in a few months when you start showing.
I wish I could think of some other way. I'm glad you didn't get the abortion, good for you honey. Hang in there!
2006-10-19 19:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he don't turst you you should break up with him, what kind of boyfriend do you have (I don't meanthat in a bad way) I mean you must of had the abortion becasue you didn't want the baby or becasue he didn't approve of it. You had an abortion and he should respect that from you and not push you around saying that he don't trust you. tell him to read so pre birth books and find out in about how many months does a women that is pregnet begin to show and wait for that time to show him you weren't lieing. He should be able totrust you as well as respect you.
2006-10-19 19:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by dm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u actually had one the only proof u would have is the receipt. u could get a receipt from the abortion clinic for like birth control and mark the abortion box on the receipt and fill in a believeable amount like $330 instead of $30 for birth control.
u already said u know this is wrong so u dont' need any lectures
2006-10-19 19:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by confused mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you're planning to keep this baby. So, you might as well tell him the truth. What are you going to tell him once you start showing? He'll find out sooner or later.
One of my friends told the guy that she was seeing that she was pregnant. I know this is bad, but she got the abortion. He didn't believe her and asked for a receipt. I really wished that she would have kept the baby, but that wasn't my decision. He was a jerk for asking for proof and I'm glad they didn't end up staying together.
2006-10-19 20:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by JoesWifee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can set up for the baby's adoption and get help with money and housing sometimes so the woman would be okay through pregnancy.10 minutes ago I just heard a testimonial about this: A nurse said that the doctor took out one leg, then another, then pulled out the body except the head and took scissors, stabbed it through the moving baby's neck and put a cathether into the moving baby's head and sucked out its brain upon which it was dead. Though advised otherwise the mother wanted to see the baby. And once seen the mother began to scream to God "forgive me!"
2006-10-20 10:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ilovechristjesustheking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I don't see why you need to lie about anything. If you do lie, it will only come around to bite you in the ***. I mean, pregnancies become obvious after a few months, he's gonna find out.
I'm not sure what your plans are with said fetus, but ultimately, it is up to you. Just find out the best way to break the news to him, and maybe you need to reevaluate your relationship.
2006-10-19 20:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Drew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? This guy doesn't deserve any proof if he wasnt there with you and is now demanding proof! Tell him to f off and take care of yourself and the child. Course since you know he doesnt want the child I think it would be unfair of you to later nail him for child support since you evidently agreed to terminate and really didn't.
2006-10-19 21:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet would be to produce one yourself using your computer and printer. Use your imagination.
I can only imagine all the reasons why you want him to think that. He must be some piece of work.
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2006-10-19 19:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋