HOW do you know if he is the one?????

Question

10/20/65 How will I know?

I do feel I can tell him anything and he likes me for me not for what I can or can not give just me all me. JUST trust is an issue and I scared 2 be hurt again!!!

Answer 1

if he is good to ya

Answer 2

You were not put on this Earth to just please a man. There is so much more to you. Love and be loved. If he asks you to marry him and your heart tells you this is right, then accept. If he doesn't ask for marriage within a 6 year span, then he won't bother. If you want marriage, you have to be honest and tell him that. If you just want a long term relationship, then great, tell him that also. Your true love will come along and will propose to you, if that is what you want. You have to ask the Universe for it. Pray for it. It will come to you. In the meantime, take care of YOU! Be good to YOU!

Answer 3

there is a direct cause and affect of why your having trust issues with him. you need to look in yourself and ask why? maybe its just insecurities because you've been burnt so many times now. the only one that will know if hes for you is yourself, your looking in all the wrong areas hun. what does your heart tell you? and what does your logic say? balance the two and you'll find your answerer. its there, you just have to look.

Answer 4

Isn't it amazing how trust is always the issue?

Is he giving you reason not to trust him? If not, then let go of the past and love with your whole heart ... if yes then watch for the red flags and get out when you've seen too many.

Answer 5

If you feel you can tell him anything and you nearly finish his sentences before he does and you just "flow" totally with him and have many things in common, then you know he is "Mr. Right".

Answer 6

you know he is the one when:
he looks at you in certain why
when he touches you feel safe
he does not force himself on you
respect who and how you are
your heart will ache when he is away

trust is always an issue just follow your HEART
you will know when it is right

Answer 7

I used to ask the same thing. I can't really explain it. You just know.

Answer 8

you willnever know for sure, from my experence men are dogs and should be treated as such. if you can train him then he is a keeper

Answer 9

I think by now you would have learnt so much in life and yes everyone is scared to be hurt but with no pain, there is no gain in our own personal growth.
The ego creates the fear we all have no matter what situation however it is the soul that tries very hard to urge us to personal growth.
If we do not experience something to cause so much pain to learn a lesson, we would never grow, we would not become the person we are now.
With every darkness there is a light at the end of the tunnel
Without pain we would not know how much to appreciate happiness.
Never let fear hold you back, as it would be your soul to suffer.
You will never know if you don't give it ago.
Here is a sample Numerology report you may get some insight from that : )

October 20, 1965

Personal Year: 2
This is the time to lay low and wait. The events that began during the #1 period you just moved out of, are now gestating. It is a time to ponder your past and gain strength from it. To use the lessons of the past to gain harmony today, by opening the lines of communication and cooperation. It is important to remain balanced, poised, and positive. There is an air of mystery about your life now, you are being "kept in the dark", and in flux. It is not a good time to make decisions because of this.

Personal Month: 3
This is the month to express! Start a journal. Write those letters. Play and imagine and invent a new product. You're lucky and you look good, so go for it!

Personal Day: 4
Organize, plan, and schedule your life. Take care of business. Wear earth tones or dark green. Handle details, work.

Life Path or Destiny: 33
The Destiny number describes the life lessons that we have come here to learn. It reveals to us the path we must take, and the role we must play to fulfill our mission. Often our choice of career is based on this vibration, and if not, then it will manifest through avocational pursuits. We may attract people and experiences into our lives that mirror the traits of this number for us, so that we may develop into our highest potential. We don't always welcome our life lessons, so it is a possibility that we may even feel an aversion to the characteristics of our Destiny number in other people, and we may ourselves act the opposite. In spite of the many ways we may choose to react to this force within us, we have been gifted with all of the talents and energy needed to fulfill our Destiny. As the higher octave of the number 6, "master number" 33 is the number of compassion. It is called the Christ vibration and requires self-sacrifice, courage and unwavering commitment to reform , truth and healing. You are on a "mission", and other teachers will learn from your honesty, discipline and bravery. You are here to provide sustenance for the hungry, whether it be through food, beauty, education, ministry or medicine. Yours is the path of "savior".

Cycles
The destiny is divided into 3 great cycles, each governing us for specific durations throughout our life. The Seed cycle begins at birth and colors our experiences through childhood and adolescence. During the year nearest our 28th birthday, we move into the Fruit cycle which remains throughout the middle part of our life until the year nearest our 56th birthday, and the Harvest cycle carries on from there. Taken all together, the cycles show us our particular path that will lead to the fulfillment of our destiny.

Seed: 1
When 1 is the seed cycle it is more difficult, as the child is surrounded by other people guiding their life, and the inner desire for independence, freedom and self-motivation can lead to conflicts with authority or withdrawal.

Fruit: 2
Cooperation, adaptability and diplomacy shape the experience during the 2 cycle. It is a time to collect knowledge and to be of service to others, becoming sensitive to their feelings and learning patience. It is a waiting period, gestation. Psychic development is likely.

Harvest: 3
This is a time of fun and creative expression. You're likely to be in the spotlight somehow, and you've got a large audience. It's a good time to write the book you've always had in mind, or take art classes. The so-called "retirement years" are a second youth for you.

Pinnacles
The four pinnacles reveal the high spots or heights of attainment that we are likely to encounter as we move along the path of our life. The 1st pinnacle lasts from birth to around age 28. The 2nd pinnacle lasts for 9 years after that. the 3rd pinnacle lasts 9 more years, and the 4th pinnacle carries on through the rest of our life. The peak of the pinnacle is reached during the next 1 personal year. Pinnacles are like sudden inheritances from a benevolent aunt, they can transform the prevailing energies completely and suddenly. It is useful to look ahead and prepare for our pinnacles so that we can maximize their gifts to us and shape them into the most positive manifestation.

First Pinnacle: 3
Enthusiasm and joy fuel the creative expression that this pinnacle brings. It is a very "lucky" period due in part to the positive attitude and sense of limitless possibility that the 3 vibration carries with it.

Second Pinnacle: 5
The 5 pinnacle will bring opportunities for freedom in any area that there has been stagnation, so changes in job, relationships or residence are common. If there is a resistance to change, it may be manifested through something or someone seeming to force it. Either way the change will occur.

Third Pinnacle: 8
Good judgment, practical decisions and disciplined efforts are magnetizing abundance and prosperity to you during this period of accomplishment. Business and material success is very possible at this time, so think big!

Fourth Pinnacle: 4
All things earthly come under the 4 vibration and therefore, material manifestation is the end result when the logical laws of this earth are followed step by step. Insight, analysis and persistence will move you through every obstacle.

Challenges
The three challenges show us the major influences demanding our attention during specific sections of our lifetime. The 1st challenge influences the years from birth to age 28. The 2nd challenge takes over from age 28 to 52, and the third affects us our whole life. Challenges shape our attitudes and can affect our health. These vibrations that challenge us, cause either an exaggeration of the associated qualities or a lack of them, both of which are extremes which need to be brought into balance.

First Challenge: 1
The 1 challenge child usually has a misleading impression of authority or gender roles and especially of the active or assertive role. They may be raised in a physically violent atmosphere and learn to explode when their frustration builds. The creative impulse is often stifled by control or confused and tied to acceptance or rejection. The 1 therefore learns to manipulate creatively in an effort to gain love and in contrast, becomes dependent on those whom they are manipulating. One result is that they break away from parents and subsequent relationships in a kind of revenge, and feel resentment for being forced to break away. With the development of overview, compassion, and intuition the 1 can balance this challenge.

Second Challenge: 1
1's challenge is about independence and initiation in spite of any opposition. Like all challenges, balance is to be found and for this challenge the balance is in asserting their will while also considering the will of everyone else involved, not by sacrificing but by cooperating. The balance can be found in the 9 and the 2. A view of the big picture, humanity and all, coupled with a sensitive intuition. In this way the 1 can accomplish their aims with the assistance of all concerned.

Third Challenge: 0
The 0 challenge contains the essence of the previous eight challenges. Any or all of the lessons may be required or it could mean that you were born with an understanding of all nine challenges and you will be required to use your understanding wisely. Life will seem like a pendulum of opposites that you are challenged to bring into balance. 0 challenge holders are deeply romantic, in fact it may seem that they are misplaced souls from an era of chivalry, sacrifice or poetic genius. It is the challenge of 0 to develop discernment when it comes to "helping others", and to evolve a healthy dose of self-Love with which to love others. The number 0 loves with a depth that is seldom understood by those on the other paths. They are life-long searchers for a recipient of their love, their compassion and their selflessness. They must sometimes learn again and again that suffering does not equal love.



Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 10

is he good to you and respect you? if so he is the one