that you stick around because you feel sorry for him.but that the love its been gone for years.and its time for me to try and be happy.how to,hes in prison.i know 1/2 the people are gonna say just write a letter.but thats a rude way to end a relationship.i want to do it face to face but dont have the words.
2006-10-19 12:29:13 · 10 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to where he is; tell him you had to come in person to let him know that though couldn't have imagined your life without him before, this time apart has given you a chance to reflect and grow. Tell him you want him to know that you want the very best for him and that he will always hold a special place in your heart, but that your life has just grown in a different direction.
2006-10-19 12:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a tough one, cuz he is in prison it will break his heart.. you have to ask yourself why is he in there, will he do it again? How long is he in there? Was what the two of you had something you can have with someone else? There are alot of questions you have to ask yourself and be true to yourself... This is a hard one, but you have to remember you have to live your life too. You definitly don't want to write a letter... that is just not the right way to do it and you do want to do it face to face, but if you ask yourself those questions you will find the right words to say when the time comes for you to see him again face to face. good luck
2006-10-19 12:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's in prison and you cant see him. Just write a letter to get put on the visitor list.
Visit him then tell him. I cant go on without you being here with me, I need companionship, that you cant provide while your in prison. I must move on without you.
Or just forget about it all together. If he is not responsible enought to stay out of prison he doesnt deserve an explantion just leave him.
2006-10-19 12:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by pegasis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Moly! He's in Prison?! Yeah, move on.
Simple, tell him what you feel. Never stay with someone because you feel sorry for them. I had a BF that I stayed with because I felt bad for him and I realised I should have thought about ME first. Just tell him the truth. He may be sad, but at least you will have the peace of mind that you didn't lie and that you were honest about your feelings this time.
2006-10-19 12:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by kim_faut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just what you wrote. It's time for you to move on. You have to live your life. He can't be there for you while he's in prison. Women have needs and he can't me your needs behind bars.
2006-10-19 12:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him you feel sorry for him because he'll resent that and be miserable. Tell him you want to move on because it isn't working for you--it isn't him, it's you. Don't change your story and don't give in to his imploring. Stay with that statement.
2006-10-19 13:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just tell him as he sits behind a cage during visitation that it is over. you can not be happy as long as he is behind bars. your life has to have more meaning in it than it does right now. you say good-bye and wish him well.....
2006-10-19 12:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-19 12:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
......by letter is probably the best way to do it,. because if you do it in person your'e words might unintentionally floor him in front of his other cell mates............He's stuffed everything up and lost yuh,......That's his tough ****.........Writing a letter's the best way to go...
2006-10-19 13:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and see him and tell him and if he love you he understand that you have to do this.
2006-10-19 12:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋