she goes in a hot tub all the time the other night she asked me if I wanted to join her but the catch is she wants me in my underwear what should I do my dad was never around
2006-10-19 12:28:12 · 19 answers · asked by jasonbaureis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She's your mom. Give her the benefit of the doubt. For crying out loud, she is asking you to join her in a hot tub --- not the bath tub. A hot tub is not a sex toy. Hot tubs are built for more than one person to be in. I would think she's asking you to wear underwear for the sake of decency but I'd wear a swimsuit if I were you. I would think that she's wearing a swimsuit, if not she needs to be.
I think you need to examine your relationship with your mom if you are saying that you have no clue as to her intentions. Why don't you open up the lines of communication? Why is it so difficult to ask her why she wants you to join her? Maybe she's thinking that it's therapeutic and it would be great for you to take advantage of it too. I am a mother, older than she and I fail to see a problem. Assuming you had a pool, would you have a problem with her asking you to join her in the pool? For heavens sake get your mind out of the gutter.
If you have that much of an issue with it, express your feelings and be done with it.
2006-10-22 03:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Mystery of Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are disabled and can't get in on your own then she probably thinks the hot tub would be beneficial to your health. She wanted you to wear underwear rather than going in naked I would assume. I just think she has your best interest (as far as your health and the possibility of you falling) in mind.
2006-10-19 12:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your mom for God's sake. Big deal your in your underwear, she changed you as a baby so nothing there she hasn't seen before. But if your that uncomfortable with it then be honest and tell your mom.
2006-10-19 12:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds a little weird. If she's your mom she shouldn't be putting you in an awkward position like that (which you must be b/c you asked about it on here). Just stay away from situations like that! Look out for yourself ..
2006-10-19 12:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH S*** sorry i didnt see it was your mom!! abort abort!!
im in a wheelchair also...
i would love to be you ....
theres nothing wrong going in with just your underwear on..
JUST REMEMBER if she gets on you, DONT forget a condom.
if your just rubing on each other go for it man
PS.. have fun
2006-10-19 12:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon she's feeling sorry for you because since you're disabled, she thinks you won't be able to get a girlfriend so then you won't be able to have any sexual relations.
2006-10-21 01:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in your underwear or swim trunks is certainly acceptable.
2006-10-19 12:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 20 years old. Don't tell her anything, show up in your bathing suit. If she doesn't like it then I would let her know that you think its unacceptable.
2006-10-19 12:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanna know how your moms age is [late 30s] and you are twenty.you are playing a fools game bud. all though if she is older and your mother she is a sick person [KEEP HER AWAY FROM CHILDREN] OH , AND MOVE OUT THERE A PLACES EQUIPTED FOR ALL KINDS OFDISABLED PEOPLE.
2006-10-19 13:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she has a friend that will join you two.
2006-10-19 12:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋