How do you get a boy to notice you even though your not popular?

Question

really cute and fine

Answer 1

Dear Kutie: You don't have to be popular. People of both sexes like to be admired by another. Boys and men like direct eye contact. That is very easy to do. When walking toward him or passing him, if he looks at you make eye contact and offer a shy smile: Admiration. No smile that seems to be offering anything. NO NO, nothing suggestive. A simple eye contact and sweet smile. No tension in the smile, now! Relaxed and sweet. Just plain admiration. He'll see it . . .and know you are approachable. Own yourself, and never "fall apart" if he says "hi!" Or stops to ask your name. No self-concious giggles or acting silly. Have confidence. Two things the boys love in girls are : the girl's admiration for them and the girl's self confidence. Sweetness works too! More than boots and whip!

Best regards, Lana

Answer 2

Why do I get the idea "not popular" means you have a problem with low self esteem?

There is a whole multitude of things you can do.

The first - and most obvious - is to talk to him. As others have already pointed out verbal communication is essential.

Secondly, be a little flirtatious. Put your head down a little so you have to look up at him with your eyes. It'll play right into his subconscious desire to protect a helpless child. Make sure you smile a little too. Exposing your neck (like tilting your head when greeting him) is also sure to get his attention. It's a submissive gesture, just like the head down - eyes up look.

Thirdly, act a little more confident, even if you don't feel it. Act confident and you'll become more confident.

Fourthly, if it doesn't work out, don't give up on yourself. Maybe he's not the right guy for you anyway. Look for someone who has something in common with you.

Answer 3

Smile and say hi. Any human, popular, or not popular, likes a friendly greeting. Maybe you might even strike up a converstion with him. You don't have to be at the tip top of the social pyramid to be noticed.

Answer 4

Guys don't live and die as much by the whole popular thing. Don't worry about that.

Guys rarely get compliments or have girls start conversations with them. He may not be used to a girl who tells him she like's his hair or ask about his hobbies but he will definitely notice you.

Answer 5

simple, when you pass by him, say "hi, how's going" that's all it takes for a boy to notice you.

Answer 6

Try talking to him about something you have in common. If that doesn't work try the bend and snap :)

Answer 7

well like ask him to help u in a subject at school that ur bad in.thats what i did.it worked he noticed me.i asked him to the dance that was comming up and he said no because he wasnt going.but so i asked him if he was good in math cuz im not and he said he'll help me.and if u get staright A's then ask him either if he would like to hang out with u sumtime or like ask him if he has a sn and im him or email him.but my advice to u is to ask him if he wants to hang out or just stop him in the hall and say either"look,i really like you and i wanna hang out sumtime?u wanna?"orrrr say "hi im (your name),wanna hang out sumtime?"or if he knows ur name "hey (his name),can i talk to u?see i think ur really cool and i wanna hang out sumtime u wanna?"then give him ur phone number or ur sn!then hopefully it works!hope i helped!good luck!

Answer 8

im 15 and to be honest if the boy was interested in you he would have allready noticed you in my opinion

Answer 9

u make the first move, andtry to talk to him

Answer 10

try being yourself and talk to him mabye he does notice you but you just don't see it