i talk a lot and people tell me i'm loud and obnoxios but then when they tell me that i will be like really quite and everyones like omg whats wrong..i like being loud bt sometimes i am too loud..HELP
2006-10-19 12:13:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try putting your mind into gear before you put your mouth into action. Sounds like your friends really like you if they are that concerned when you become quiet. I've often heard that we were born with two ears and one mouth; therefore, we should listen twice as often as we talk. Try this and see if it helps you become any less annoying. Good luck.
2006-10-19 12:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch yourself whenever you know its a situation where you are going to be loud. Just take a deep breath and say what you want to say calmly and rationally without busting peoples eardrums. If you think of it as "They can hear me at a normal volume" then you will eventually quiet down.
2006-10-19 12:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by lysette.oxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't stop the loud then work on the obnoxious. Ask people about themselves and they will think you are a wonderful conversationalist. Ask one question for every statement you make. It's hard but it's fair.
2006-10-19 12:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Laura B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just shut your pie hole. talk rarely, once in a while. and all those times/ situations where you see yourself chatting up a storm, just shut up, get your work done, and keep it moving. if people are shocked, who cares. let them be. just move on, doing your thing.
2006-10-19 12:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by wizeguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋