well a while ago my friends boyfriend had given me a ride home from a specific place and when i got home he decided to ask my advice and tell me their business----we talked for a long time, well his girl's best friend had been wearing on their relationship insted of spending time w/ him she was spending all of the time w/ her. he was bitter and i told him that he had every right to be mad and he went on to call the frine a b**ch, well I added my input and to make a long story short, he went back and squealed and turned everything on me. the girlfriend was the most hurt---mind u we are all grown but were on 4 way to get to the bottom of th BS. well till this day i think she is still mad at me for that b/c when she asked me about it i didnt tell her the whole truth b/c i didnt want her to be upset i apologized and she cried on the phone b/c she was hurt and it took maybe 4 weeks for her to come around. well we are cool now but we talk maybe once a week if that. did she over react?
2006-10-19 12:01:37 · 4 answers · asked by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
U KNOW WHAT YALL ARE GROWN A$$ WOMEN I MEAN LET HER BE MAD
BUT U SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER EVERYTHING THATS EXACTLY WHY WHEN A MALE FRIEND OF ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS COME TO U FOR ADVICE DONT GIVE JUST POLITELY SAY WELL JUST TLK TO HER ABOUT IT SO THATS NONE OF YOUR WORDS WILL BE SWITCHED AND USED AGAINST U I MEAN IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE HE TRYING TO RID OF ALL HER FRIENDS FOR HIM TO LY TO HER ABOUT U AND TRYING TO GRT U TO PULL HR AWAY FROM THE OTHER CHICK
I MEAN GROWN WOMEN GROWN MAN?
HOW OLD
THIS IS SOME **** U SHOULD HAVE AND SHE SHOULD HAVE JUST LET GO LIKE
HE CAME TO U BUT THEN AGAIN HE SHOULDNT HAVE DROPPED U OFF UNLESS HE'S CALLED HER AND LET HER KNOW BECAUSE THAT AINT EVEN COOL U KNOW ACCIDENTS HAPPEN JUST THINK THIS COULD HAVE BEEN WORSE
IF YALL FRIENDS SHE'S BEEN OVER IT HOMEGIRLS DONT REALLT SWEAT THIS MESS I MEAN IF SHE TRUST HIM AND OR U
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-19 12:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem is you are bad person, and for people like you is no forgiveness.
You got punished because you deserved it.
Learn from the lesson. Move on.
2006-10-19 12:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what's done is done. you have apologized and learned from your mistakes. We all make mistakes, stop beating yourself up over it. if she is meant to be a friend, it will happen. you are not a bad person, you tried to help.
2006-10-19 12:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be very careful about situations like this because you will get burned sounds like she sent him on the fishing expedition..
2006-10-19 12:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋