i wanna divorce my mom?

Question

ive heard you can and i am freakin sick of my mom. i read this thing some mom posted as an answer for some girl who wanted to live with her dad, it was really mean. but im serious, my mother thinks im just some peice of s...h...i...t that she has to feed so now shes takign classses for a second job that NOBODY asked her to do. and she says shes doing it for us and the past two weeks shes been making us get up at 6 so we asked her "is 2day the last day we have to wake up at six?" and she just sighs and starts freakin yelling about how she told us and we asked her tht already when we have not even brought it up for the whole 2 weeks. shes so emotionally abusive & selfish. thats not even the worst part. she maes us pick up and move every two freakiin years and when i finally got settled [[becuase she told me it was our last time]] and i met my best friends and she made me leave evry thing i ever thought i would stay with. i am sick of her. dont bother replying if u'll just lecture.

yes, i have tried to talk with her. every time i do, she gets mad another day and uses EVERYTHING i ever told her against me. i dealt with it before but now its gettign to me. every morning i wake up to nothing but insults and put downs.

oh woman, dont get me started. i dont go anywhere. we go to the mall to buy my moms ****. i dont hang out with my friends becuase she doesnt let me. i dont try and go with the latest fads, you wanna know why? i could care less if hte new fad is a bunch of belts aroudn your waist or skinny jeans. i owuldnt buy them if i found htem at target for a buck.

Answer 1

Do you miss your mother because she's taking classes? Do you wish she would spend more time with you? If that's the case then you don't want a divorce from her. However, if your mom is abusive to you then you need to come up with a plan. Who would you live with? Is it a family member because the courts aren't going to let you let stay with a friend. Are you close to your father? If so, would he let you stay with him? These are questions that you need to ask yourself before going to the courts to divorce your mom.

Good luck!

Answer 2

You sound mad and if what you say is true.... you have a right to be mad, but think about how your mom feels too. Moms & dads hate it when their kids are mad or sad or hurt. Your getting mad at her isn't helping the situation. Do you help her around the house or does she work two jobs & do all the household chores??

You can always go to the courts and become immancipated.
That means that you take care of yourself...nobody can tell
you what to do....when to wake up...when to go to sleep.

Of course, then you'll have to get a job and pay rent, gas & electric, buy your own food and clothes, but hey.....your mom
wont be able to rag on you anymore. If she is working 2 jobs and moving alot it sounds like you might be doing her a favor if you get immancipated....one less mouth she will have to feed.

Not a lecture.......just the cold, hard facts.

Good luck.

Answer 3

I a mom myself and I can tell you we can make mistakes too. I am not so patient with my daughter all the time. She gets me though. We have a good relationship built on trust and honesty. It starts there. Trust your mom to be honest with you before making a mistkake you will regret. Give her a chance and talk like adults together you can come to a solution. Don,t sweat the small stuff. You may be angry now but in time you will look back and see God puts ppl in our lives even if for a short time to enrich our lives. Look at all the friends you have made and look at all the good times you have had and thank God you have been blessed with those experiences.

Answer 4

No Lecture!!! You put yourself out there for one. I'm So tired of hearing about how hard it is being a child, being that you children have no clue how we mothers hate working 2 dead-end jobs just to make sure that you can go to school in the current fads, food that you have to eat, money to go to the MALL with your friends, not to mention the thankless times we as parents "TAXI" you everywhere. Just a little insight.... from the sound of it, have you thought that maybe, just maybe your mother would like to DIVORCE you????

Answer 5

You sound really pissed, which even comes out in your dialog to us nice folks who merely want to help you. I suggest (and this is not a lecture) that you try actually talking to her, but don't let her put you in the "kid role" but stay in an 'adult to adult' conversation. Tell her how moving to another place and leaving your friends makes you feel. Tell her how you feel unsettled. The thing about the classes sounds like her drive for personal improvement and maybe she's telling the truth about her motives--ask her to show you how this is so. But remember, she's your mother, she gave birth to you, and you owe her the opportunity to hear her side.

Answer 6

Emancipation like everyone here is talking about sounds like your answer. But I agree that you better be sure your ready for the resposibilities that come with it. Once emancipated there is no going back.

Answer 7

are you sure this is what you want? if you become emancipated that menas you are a legal adult and you must take care of yourself...i'll see if i can send you a link to tell you about what you are asking.....no lectures, just be sure you know what you are doing and do all of your homework as far as research goes......

please be safe....

Answer 8

you made a dedication to your spouse to love her til dying do you section....and yet you broke that promise and fell in love w/ somebody esle? i wish your son by no skill desires to talk to you lower back...stable success,,

Answer 9

your just a kid..... when you get older and have a family you'll look back and see what a BRAT your being!!!

Answer 10

this can happen...contact an attorney , good luck.