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2006-10-19 11:36:23 · 26 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The right reasons are always personal reasons. They definitely vary but they're similar in certain general ways. He or she has a special feeling for you based on who they are, not how they make you feel. He or she repects you and your feelings, and has a sense of honor to you--that is, cares about your life and even has respect for your parents simply because they're yours. Has patience, warmth, regard for your feelings and comfort, and makes you feel special. Is the person who takes away all doubts that you want to spend the rest of your life with them--all doubts. A person you can wake up next to, see them all rumpled, and love their rumpled look. A person you are proud to be with because he or she brings you up, not down, and holds you in their heart the same way you hold them. A person you have no doubts about and who you find attractive in every way and still know their faults.
2006-10-19 12:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there aren't any right or wrong reasons.. You will feel it in your gut and you will know when you want to spend the rest of your life with this person.. You can't imagine your life without them.. those are all good reasons to be with someone, but it don't mean that they are the right reasons to be married.... You will be the only person who will know when it is right for you to be married to this person... Love is a big word that is thrown around so much and so easily these days and marriage has become something that can be done so easily and people I don't think think about it anymore before they do it.. I can only say this cuz I have been married 2 times now and going thru my second divorce and I thought I was getting married for the right reasons, but like you said.. what are the right reasons??? Is there really any right reason to be married??? Only you will know
2006-10-19 19:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a man, there is no good reason. Marriage only provides more rights/advantages to women. As is; you have no right over your unborn child nor would you likely get custody of your kids in the event of a divorce. Even if you only live with a single mother, after a period of time you are liable for child support to another mans children. The contract of marriage? If she decides that she no longer loves you, she will get about half of your money and you will also lose about 30-50 % of your future income. I'm not saying this is all women, but the numbers bear out that 80% of divorces are iniated by women, largely for trivial reasons. Regardles of what women say, the quantified majority will divorce you and ruin your life. that is a fact.
2006-10-19 19:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by nickname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only RIGHT REASON for getting married is For LOVE...True Love.
I hope you aren't thinking about marriage at this time,because if you really have too ask what the right reasons are for getting married then you are not ready!! ( I don't say this too be mean, It's just a fact.)
2006-10-19 19:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Rose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be willing to be the right person for your spouse. If you can picture still loving 50 years from now when you are both wrinkled and maybe fat. If you just want to help that person get though the worst day of their life. If you are married you will probably be around for that. It's not about the sex or the hearts and flowers or how they look now.
2006-10-19 18:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anna W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to spend my lifetime loving you- Tina Arena and Marc Anthony (Zorro Theme)
For a sense of belonging, reproduction, and personal gender to gender compatability
The benefits the law can give you by being married, tax breaks, joint bank account discounts, many other things financially.
If a wife or husband gets sick in the hospital you are the first admitted whearas if you are not married and don't have proof than you have to wait if they let you in at all
Fullfill a sociological impression that has been engrained into our society
2006-10-19 18:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel like settling.
He asked
You're too lazy to get back out there and start dating
You already live together, so why not
oh wait... good reasons. because they are your best friend... Lust goes away, passion dies down - if you cant talk to and enjoy the person that you are with (as if you werent in a relationship) then you shouldnt get married.
2006-10-19 18:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by E-Rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way I see it. Too many people find themselves in a certain situation and they think, "If I really work on this, I think it could work. And I love this person. I should marry them." I think you should get married when you feel like you love everything about your situation so much, you never want it to change.
2006-10-19 18:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I could be any more cheesy, but to me family is the most important thing in the world.
To be someones family, share their name and their life, I think that is the right reason to get married.
2006-10-19 18:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by eileezy2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only obvious reason i know is because you truly LOVE the person no matter what his or her defects are or no matter who this person's lifestyle is. If you married this person, then you truly believed in him or her, and LOVED this person all in all. Unfurtunately, some people get married because they got pregnant or because of money and that;s sad because there is little or no love. My advice is, if you are going to marry someone, please remind yourself that you;re doing it because you really love your partner. You don't want a divorce, so you might want to deeply think tabout what you're getting married for.
2006-10-19 18:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋