Im in love with my current bf but before I met him I loved one of his friends i still talk to him even though he does terrible things and he plays mind games with me and I dont even think herealizes it. I was talking to him last night and he told me he loved me so much and then today he says that "him;i dont want you me;You change your mind so much,Der.him;i cant want you me;why? him;you dont want me me;Its.. complicated.him;im not up for it He changes his mind so much and it hurts because he will always have a peice of my heart but my new bf and I are talking about marriage one day! I havent told him yet that the guy will always hold a small peice of my heart, but he means so much more.I dont know how to tell him.This guy has hurt not only me,but my bf,and his sis.I cant break of contact with him no matter how hard I try and a part of me dosent really want to. I wish I could just see him so we could settle things between us..
Am I a horrible person, because I feel like one..
2006-10-19 11:27:48 · 9 answers · asked by Nicole P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I told my boyfriend.. he said he understands but I still feel like the most horrible person alive.
The other guy was never my boyfriend, we never got togeather but we both felt the same way
and he is apparently moving to england
2006-10-19 11:47:24 · update #1
Just put all your time and energy into your new boyfriend and quit talking to the old one.
2006-10-19 11:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you shouldn't be talking about marriage with your current boyfriend if you have feelings for someone else. Don't tell your boyfriend that a small part of your heart will always be with this other dude cause if you do, things will never be the same for you two. He will always wonder if you will leave him for that stupid dude that is playing with your feeling. You need to either leave your boyfriend or get rid of the other guy cause it really doesn't sound like he's worth it.
2006-10-19 11:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are displaying bad character. You need to leave your ex alone so he can find himself. You have moved on yet you are emotionally attached to your ex. Love don't work like that you have to be totally committed to your boyfriend and your ex problems are for him to deal with because you have already tried that and it didn't work out leave it alone. There is nothing to settle you can't go back and change the past. You have moved on and you need to leave the past alone. I don't think you would like it if your boyfriend was like this with another woman. If you don't get your proirities together your boyfriend will catch your negative vibes and may seek comfort else where.
2006-10-19 11:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not horrible....but you are being manipulated...I would stay as far away from him as you can. I guess what it amounts to is how much crap do you feel like taking from him. When you've had enough...you'll break all ties with him...but until then all the advice in the world won't help!
2006-10-19 11:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by kaddy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not a bad person, but you can't allow this to continue. Have some respect for your new man and cut that old one off. Your relationship with your ex is pointless, and you don't need that kind of attention.
2006-10-19 11:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by ฿└ΛÇκ ĦΘŁỀ ŞЏП 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not, you are a woman trying to get her feelings under control and trying to find out what you want
2006-10-19 11:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a bottle of tequilla and two rubbers and the three of you can get down and dirrrrty
2006-10-19 11:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by mrbubbachowpuss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to his friend he sounds like a playa he wants to get into your pants and that's it.
2006-10-19 11:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not...Just human....:-)
2006-10-19 11:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋