My friend said that i am a slut. I have 4 kids with 4 different daddies. Which is fine they dont need to have the same dad to be brothers and sisters. She said i have slept with way too many guys and I am just lucky i havent got anything. I've only slept with 28 guys. Im 22 years old and she said that's way too many guys for being 22. Do you think that's to many? would you say that i was a slut? I dont think i am? I think that if i slept with 40 guys i would be a slut. How many do you think?
2006-10-19 11:09:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope. You are not.
2006-10-19 11:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The problem with that term is everyone has a different meaning for it. Some will say you are if you've slept with more than 5. Some will say if you've slept with someone just to sleep with someone without regard to any rules or standards of taste then you are, here's my take.
Accept it people women like sex. Why is a guy who would sleep with 28 girls a stud but if they were a woman they'd be regarded as filthy. I've slept with....okay i lost count..maybe 70...around that much at least...anyway.
I've always regarded someone as a sl*t if they sleep with someone under false pretenses regardless of whether they are male or female. If you tell someone they are your one and only and you cheapen their feelings and your honor by cheating THEN you're a sl*t male or female.
The perception of gender roles has changed over the centuries. In the Victorian era women were totally subservient, then in the 1920's things started changing by the 60's there was no turning back and now in the new century where women have careers and make their own rules there is less sexual repression amongst women now more than ever but the old school stereotypes are hard to delete from our collective social stigmas.
You should however realize that such liberation has a demand and it is responsibility. You need to consider birth control as in getting your tubes tied and for all sexually active women out there don't rely on the guy be aggressive in making sure that you grab hold of that issue. Use birth control and keep condoms in every room of the house and in your purse or pocket just in case.
Finally if you are having sex but find it unfullfilling then you may suffer from nymphomania which is a condition in which you can never be satisfied emotionally by sex not a condition where you are addicted to it. True nymphomaniacs are never satisfied and seldom ever climax. Also people with borderline personality disorder will be highly promiscous and suffer symptoms similar to nymphomania.
2006-10-19 18:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well a "wh---" typically gets paid for her services. So, if you don't get paid, I guess you're not one.
28 guys though, sounds a bit much to me. I'm 34 and have slept with 2. You really should be careful, especially because you have children. You have a duty to be responsible and try to keep yourself physically healthy, so that you'll be there for them as they grow. You also need to set a good example, and I can't say that sleeping with that many people, would necessarily set the best example.
Keep in mind too, that the more sexual partners a woman has, the higher her risk of cervical cancer, not just STD's. At the very least, use birth control and make the men use condoms.
2006-10-19 18:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by davega7 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are stressing over this then obviously some part of you is not happy that you have slept with so many people. Perhaps you need to go to therapy to find out why you feel the need to sleep with so many people. Do you value yourself by how many of these guys want you? Do you think that's the only way a guy will like you? etc.
2006-10-19 18:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To be honest you sound like a hoe why would you want to have 4 kids by 4 different men anyway at the age of 22. Is all your time spent on boning different men. Hopefully, the 4 men that you had kids by are helping support them if not then the jokes on you. My cousin who is 32 has 6 kids by 5 different men and none of them help support their kids. I don't know why you do that.
2006-10-20 14:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a mighty lot of guy's there girlfriend and are any of them taking care of these kids? Did you ever go on Maury Povich to see who all there father's are? I don't know how some of you girl's do it, don't you have any pride in yourself? Aren't you ashamed to have all these kids by different men? No decent guy would ever want you, why should he when you put out to everyone..I feel so sorry for the kids, what are they going to think when they get older?I think you need to get on some kind of birth control. better yet get your tubes cut, then you can go screwing around with any Tom, Dick and Harry all you want.
2006-10-19 18:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by lisa b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
W_W_W_W_WOW!!! YES!!That is way to many guys!! not many guys are gonna wanted to be commited to you if you have a bunch of kids with all different daddies and it only takes one guy to sleep with to be a @#&%!!!!! but you should stay commited to ONE guy!!!
2006-10-19 18:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by ~GodsGuRl~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think how many guys you sleep with is your business and if you got 4 diffrenet baby daddies so what its your life not hers your the one who has to live it not her tell her to mind her business and butt the hell out if you want to sleep with 100 guys thats on you its not her legs your opening !!
2006-10-19 18:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by mija~chula 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i would definetely agree with your friend.... u need to get help asap.... i suspect there is an underlying issue goin on for you
2006-10-19 18:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by star 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to offend you or anything but I agree w/your friend! Sorry!
2006-10-19 18:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Pildi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i want to be in your list are you a professional?
2006-10-19 18:12:31 · answer #11 · answered by agustin22_7 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋