well we messaged a few times on the internet (im 19 he is 21) and agreed to meet up and watch a film. he is cute and we got on straight away! we kissed loads and agreed to meet up again tomorow! i really like him but ive only seen him once (last sunday)and this week we have text each other loads, i wanna take it slow and see what happens but he is being very affectionate already and sending kisses over texts and ringing me everynight and sounds like he wants to get serious quite soon! im not a very forward person and dont really want to bring it up! what should i do?
2006-10-19 11:06:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be very cautious is all I can say - Been there, done that and been very hurt! Keep your wits about you and the first sign of anything sus, get yourself out of the relationship. Take it at YOUR pace and don't feel pressured into rushing things.
2006-10-19 11:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him you want to take it slow?? If not, why not... You only met up with him last week... he may be a mind-reader, but the chances are... he aint!!
By the way... I know I'm going to sound like a mother, but when I started meeting internet people, I always met in public places for safety reasons.... only until you get to know what they are really like.
Good luck!
2006-10-19 11:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by IcingOnTheCake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you think he is cute, but you want to get to know him more before you start a relationship. Dont send any kisses back, this just encourages them!
2006-10-19 11:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by ladydanga 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that although you are fond of him, you would like to slow down and get to know him better first before anything serious happens. Sounds like he is very smitten with you..
2006-10-19 11:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by goodbye 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes take it slow.
You dont know him so , take it slow and get to know him first.
Dont lay down until he gives up more information about himself , like his past dating life, family, history, etc. In person not just over the internet.
good luck.
2006-10-19 11:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said take it slow , dont need to rush if he really loves you
2006-10-19 11:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by maluchick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your sensible..take it slow....ask him not to get too heavy with you because it's making you feel tetchy...you will contact him when you have time....he seems like a nice lad but a little bit too anxious to get a relationship going...go with the flow hun
2006-10-19 11:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should show him that you're not that interested. don't answer his texts, and don't pick the phone up. but the best way is still straight up talking.
2006-10-19 11:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by sportzgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow girl!
2006-10-19 11:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you recenly had a sex change operation and you can't rush into anything cos it might rip your stitches.
2006-10-19 11:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by OsamaBinBush 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋