ok her I go I have had a crush on a female for a while . She finally texted me the other day and gave me her number. We talked for a little while and she was going threw a break up and I offered to come over and be her support.We lissioned to some songs , played a few games and watched a movie. By that time We ended up falling asleep. I woke up early and said good bye that I had to go and left. I am so confused. I tryed calling her and left her a massage by text and phone inviting her over to my place. I haven't heard nothing yet is that a bad sign. Never done this before. any good advice?
I forgot to mention this all just happend on sunday and today is thursday.
2006-10-19 11:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
we are both lesbians for got to add it.
2006-10-19 11:14:42 · update #1
My Life and Di hit the nail on the head - give her time.
It's possible that her and her partner are even back together.
Be a friend for now and give her space-lots of space.
If she has broken up with her partner she maynot want to jump right into another relationship right now and you sure don't want to be a rebound girl.
So give her time and space and lots of friendship. If it's going to happen let it happen in a good way.
2006-10-19 12:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worth a phone call. In today's day and age it is easier to drop a text, call, or email in seconds. If she comes around fine. If not go out and get yourself someone who will treat you right and respond to your calls.
BTW- You don't want to be someones rebound. Also, the whole consoling thing might have landed you in the dreaded "Friend Zone".
2006-10-19 19:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jude M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its bad,,, If your intention is too be her friend... If she just went through a break up you need to find out how serious it was.... You don't want to be her crying shoulder. It would take away from your fresh start with her... So don't take advantage of her vulnerability right now, it will back fire and you will be the one hurt..... Just be a good friend and have fun
2006-10-19 18:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by mylife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she just went through a break up maybe she isn't looking for another relationship to start. Give her time to get through this one and be her support...
2006-10-19 18:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask her what she is looking for because it isnt fair to you to get involved with her at the breakup rebound stage and then you get hurt in the end. Just ask her.
2006-10-20 00:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by mamacitac9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she forgot to message you and shes probably busy, I'm sure she still likes you.
2006-10-19 18:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't ready to jump into another relationship just yet..give her time & space...
2006-10-19 23:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't clear. Do you know if she is gay?
If she picked up on that you are attracted to her and she isn't gay - you may have made her feel uncomfortable. Sorry.
Give it time...
2006-10-19 18:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it but maybe she is reconsidering her ex or she is just not ready for anything new.
2006-10-19 19:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by free_style_forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's it? that's all u've done with her?... of course she will leave..u didn't even tell her that u have a cruch on her..good things like this doesn't happen everyday!....i think u messed up..or she 's not intersted in you or she's not even lesbian..
2006-10-19 18:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by paranoid. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋