Yeah, it hurts, but knowing that she is happy with him makes me happy inside.
Ever happen to you? Guy or girl
2006-10-19 11:02:25 · 12 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yeah im having the same exact problem that you are having. shes a really pretty, nice, smart girl(i could go all day describing her).i spent everyday trying to get her to feel the same way about me as i feel about her. unfortunatly for me she is going out with some other guy the thing that bothers me the most is that i was about to ask her out but i couldnt find her that day, i found out the next day she just got a boyfriend later in the day before and he asked after i would of if i had seen her.but hey i dont feel bad shes happy around him and well right now all i can do is wait and hope i will find some one that likes me.
2006-10-19 12:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by brad k 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can relate to what you mean. I have had this to happen to me, and I can tell you, it ripped my heart right out of my chest. I have never felt this bad in my life. I just wanted to die, and there was not one thing I could do about it. I tried to do something about it, but ended up loosing a good friend in the process. This woman lured me in, led me to think I stood a chance with her, and then walked on my heart like nobodies business. I know she had feelings for me because she said she did, but when it came down to getting together with her, she went for someone else, and there I stood looking like some fool. Did I learn a lesson from it? No... I still have very strong feelings for her, and I will until the day I die. So I guess you could say I've been there and done that. Have a good one!!!
2006-10-19 18:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. WHY are you stalking these two.???????
2. Your not a normal guy........
3. It's not normal to feel happy about something that is tearing you up inside.
4. Get some help..
No one should get hurt if someone doesn't want to be with them.....that is their choice....get on with meeting someone else and leave useless emotions like this behind... it does nobody any favours...ohhhhhh the worst feeling in the world....ohhhh i'm glad she's happy.....there are a lot of weak personalities in the world.......
2006-10-19 18:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh my yes...i think most of the world has gone through this...i went through it in high school mostly..but when i was in my 20's i dated a guy and it didnt work out but we remained friends...i was madly in love with him, but he decided to be with someone else...he was happy and was enjoying the relationship so all i could do was step back and keep my feelings to myself...i didnt think that i had the right to tell him that i loved him when he was with someone else
i still hurts to this day...he works at a bar in Seattle and I would go there every once in a while to visit and check in...i see him with his girlfriend and it still shatters my heart because i still do love him...
the dilemas of life and love...they suck
2006-10-19 18:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by sherichance79 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that's beautiful. That you are able to put her needs and happiness before your own. That really is true love. Someone will be very lucky when they find you!
Yes, it's happened to me too. But I guess that is what they call "life on lifes terms".
2006-10-19 18:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Semi-charmed 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES, i hate love
..it could the best and the worst feeling eva!!!
happened to me once, that is why i can't love again, i am too scared to go through the pain that comes after love
2006-10-19 18:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, thank god, that would be a very horrible situation to be in. Sorry for your pain, and want to commend you on being mature enough to accept it and be happy for her happiness. Some day you will find the right one. good luck and God bless
2006-10-19 18:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow I think many other guys have discovered that too.
2006-10-19 20:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, never not to me but i know someone who's had that situation
before. all you can do is wish the best for her if anything the best will happen to you...
p.s.
just have patients
then you'll know
what i mean....
2006-10-19 18:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by pualena m 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes it has happend i'm a girl i liked a guy! but i moved on and now i only love those who love me back! :)
2006-10-19 18:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋