Like, when someone comes up to you and calls you a loser or other names, knocks you down when you do good..etc..
Or for even those people who give you dirty looks or talk about you right in front of you?
Kill 'em?
2006-10-19 10:50:32 · 15 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
no dont kill them...cause then u will spend the rest of your life in prison.. these people are miserable and most likely to be jealous of u
2006-10-19 10:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I feel the best defense is to turn the tables on them, point out there faults give them a dose of their own medicine and see how they like it. Another is plain old fashioned honesty tell that their statements are bothering you. The third is try to avoid them as much as possible. The fourth is to know that you are beautiful, special, unique and fabulous. Don't let statements made by people with their own issues bother you. Remind yourself that you are wonderful. Many people are tormented by others but you have to be strong hold you head up and realize these people have nothing better to do with themselves. They are sad really.
2006-10-19 11:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by lizzy tee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion - best defense is just to ignore it!!
They pick on you because they know it bugs you so they will continue to do it as long as they get a reaction out of you. You are giving them their *kicks* so to speak because they are the bullies. Don't let them get their little thrills .. and just walk away with your head held high. Prove them wrong by continuing to do good at what you do and how you do it. Your accomplishments will be recognized by the people who matter ... not by the jerks who want to put you down because when it comes down to it - do they really matter in the long run??
If they are putting you down right in front of you - then just move on and go somewhere else - you make the choice - don't let them make it for you. You control your own emotions and how you react to what is done to you - they don't! They haven't grown up yet - you have. :-)
2006-10-19 11:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people make fun of others because it makes them feel like superior. Try looking at them and smiling in a way that makes them wonder what you are up to. It will eventually drive them to the point that they may be afraid to continue to harass you, plus, they won't get the satisfaction of seeing that anything they say may hurt you. I knew a guy who had the same problem as you but ended up going to jail after months of others making fun of him. You don't want that to happen.
2006-10-19 11:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by pupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to laugh with them.. they will only continue if they get a rise out of you. Agree with them and then show them at the end, how capable you really are. You must remember; those who belittle others are trying to recover something they lack in themselves.. they feel bigger and more important to themselves but can only achieve it be reducing others.
Don't be offended... just don't accept what they say..they are not worthy of any answers anyway. If you show strength of character, they will see you as an example, something to reach for.. an incentive.
2006-10-19 11:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really do you admire these people? do you want to be like them? do you like them? do you take there advice on other issues or do they just tease you?
Well if you like,admire or want to be like them then take it all to heart.. ifyou don't then why bother with anything they really are not part of your goals they are not your role modle they will not help you get to your goal so F em yeah forget about them! it can be hard! trust me i was picked on every day in school now i'm almost 30 and i don't even care! not like there here now picking on me! infact they are all fat and have too many kids and live in a non proud place at least in my eyes!
BE WHO YOU ARE F ever one else!
if you let the know it bugs you by fight back or defending yourself! then they will continue!
instead just look at them dead in the eye! and say what ever makes you feel good! they will most likely laugh at you but you stood up for yourself and they are too blind side by low selfesteem to udnerstand that mean your ontop of the game! :)
you could go to coping.org they have self help for everything in there! great site! helps me with a lot of issues!
its free and asks lots of questions it's almost like a mini quiz! but fun!
Mad luv
2006-10-19 11:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers make fun of me all the time and I ignore them because I can't retaliate to them because I don't want any trouble. But in your case, just let them be them and build up yourself up saying positive things about yourself. Only you know you. Others who belittle others won't get ahead in life I should know since I am 38 and it is hard when others make fun of me for no reason. If they knock you down, tell the teacher. Good luck.
2006-10-19 11:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Next time you see them getting on an elevator or going into a room or some place, fart and leave them standing it. Hopefully someoone else will walk in and the jerk is standing there to explain it was not them.
2006-10-19 17:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by apes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a martial arts course. They give you skills, discipline and confidence; having confidence will help you with the bullies. And remember, they are the ones behaving like apes, therefore they are the losers, not you. I sympathize with you, and I understand your feelings of rage, but please don't do anything violent--think of how your family would feel.
2006-10-19 11:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by Gallifrey's Gone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand up to them...they only prey on the ones who appear weak...be strong and act like it doesn't bother you...find some dirt on them....If you lack self esteem, they can sense it and will make you a target...again stand up for yourself, you don't deserve to be put down by anybody.
2006-10-19 10:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by monkeymadness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋