My bestfriend thinks her boyfriend is cheating one her and we are trying to find out who it is but we didn't get it yet.My best friend boyfriend keeps saying he isn't cheating now i don't know what to believe.I believe my best friend more and not the boy.How can we catch the boy cheating or should my bestfriend just brake up with him?
2006-10-19 10:49:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey, why do that? you know he might be telling the truth but you never know he might be lieing. what i would do was get smeone to investigate that he doesnt know. like go around and fallow him in the car and then see what happens. hope that helps
2006-10-19 10:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to give you a very sage-like piece of advice young lady. Stay out of this. This is between your friend and her boyfriend. You are a nuetral party and getting involved with spying on him can lead to all sorts of stuff. Especially if you happen to find out for a fact he is...she confronts him...he denies it and kisses and lies and cuddles and she falls for it. Then guess what? Guess where you'll be? On the outside looking in.
So...rather than learn a lesson of life while you are young the hard way....take my advice.
Cluck your tounge and shake your head and say "Oooo..that's awful" and "Oh...what a bastard" and such but DO NOT interfere.
2006-10-19 10:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you "cheat" on someone that you are not married to or not engaged to? The boy is a free agent, honey! He can do what he wants! So can your gf. You two need to get a hobby and stop harassing the guy. He'll never want anyone who is constantly checking up on him.
2006-10-19 10:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend distrusts him so much that you two are out looking for the dirt you suspect is there, the relationship is already over. Its just a matter of time before you realize it.
2006-10-19 10:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't trust him - she should just break up. You can't be in a relationship if:
1) he's cheating on you
2) or you just so insecure yourself you think that he is (when he isn't)
Either way? Not going to work.
2006-10-19 10:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should find out if he's actually cheating before she dumps him. Don't jump to conclusions! Find the evidence.
2006-10-19 10:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now she doesnt know. She needs more proof. I know you want to help her but it really isnt your place to find out. If she feels that she cant trust him then she needs to end the relationship. Why would she want to be with someone that doesnt make her happy.
2006-10-19 10:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend is POSITIVE, and I mean positive straightforward, then she should dump him, and laugh. There are many great guys in the world, he may not be the perfect one
2006-10-19 10:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to really know what to do stlk him without him knowing and tape him having a date with another girl. If you got proof your bff will not stay with her bf ok. If u dont got no proof she and him will stay
2006-10-19 10:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by da202101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she thinks he's cheating that means she doesn't trust him even if he wasn't she still doesn't trust, they should just break up.
2006-10-19 10:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by Meche 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋