i had a dream last night about the guy who i used to love and am now very bitter about. i have no feelings for him whatsoever. heres my dream:
i was watching a movie with my friends and they invite him over so he puts his arm around my waist and asks to take a walk with me. he is extremely affectionate (picking me up and hugging me and kissing me on the cheek) and i didnt feel uncomfortable.
when i woke up i was very disturbed. i still dont know what it means.
2006-10-19 10:45:57 · 15 answers · asked by madamekika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It could be a wish fulfillment dream. Deep down you may not have moved on from him and you haven't given yourself the proper time to heal from it. Instead, you've either pushed it from your mind or you've decided to just not care.
If you have any other dreams that need deciphering, this is a site that I go to all the time. It has an extensive list of dream topics:
www.dreammoods.com
this is what it says about an ex who is being affectionate to you:
To dream that you are being massaged by your ex-boyfriend, suggests that you need to let go of some of that defensiveness that you have been putting forth. You may have been putting up a wall or armor around you. You need to learn to trust people again.
2006-10-19 10:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by thedaybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I play an MMORPG. All the time. Called Eudemons Online. Most of my dreams are based off of that game. I dream I'm playing the game. What's sad is people put way too much into the dreams they have. I'm 21 years old. When I was around 13 or so, I had a dream that made me feel when I was 33 I would die in a car crash. Nobody else involved, lifeted up 4x4. T street. A few years off, but I don't think that what I dreamed then, will come true. Even if I had the same dream 1 time every 6 years. Things change. You change. It's not your dreams that make your future. It's your future that'll make your dreams. Don't focus on a dream you have. If anything, they're more of a symbol of something that has happend, or never will happen. A warning, something to help you avoid a catastrophe you in your life. Live the life you have, the way you want, and not by any dreams.
2016-05-22 03:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could provide some more detail, it would be helpful. What was the wheather like while you were walking? Where were you walking? Were you talking to one another if so about what? I would say based on the information that you gave, you still have feelings for him and you miss the relationship the way it was when things were good. Doesnt mean you want to get back with him, just that you miss the good times shared.
2006-10-19 10:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy represents your past or an emotion that is coming back to surface. Although you may feel bitter now, what emotion was the dominant one throughout your relationship? Think about it and then think about where you are in life now. Is there a major change? Or, alternately, a significant feeling of routine and contentment? Perhaps your entire relationship was rocky, and you are trying to use a more calming "fantasy" relationship with him to come to terms with your current affairs. Hope this helps!
2006-10-19 10:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by chrissiecat85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times dreams are always opposite. In your case, you probably have this regret with this person. Projecting to be in love again could mean you subconsciously regret what you have done for the break up. It involves a little guilt conscience.
That is why you vent this out in dream
2006-10-19 11:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You unconciously still have feelings for him. Dreams tell a lot about your unconcious. If you didn't care for him anymore, you shouldn't even be thinking or dreaming about him. Another thought just came to my mind: maybe you think he still likes you and that you still have some kind of power over him......humm....maybe.....
2006-10-19 10:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by seelee916 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U wanna bone him still, ....Or put in other words, You still wishing he showed up I guess. I believe that dreams are manifestation of wishes and or fears. We dream bout things we fear or wish for for the most parts.. Other times my dreams make no absolute sense.
2006-10-19 10:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ray D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spirita explains your dreams
Visit http://spirita.blogspot.com/ and post your question as a comment. You'll get your free dream interpretation shortly
2006-10-21 07:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know alot about dreams, and I'll tell you what your dream means: it means deep down inside, you like him, and he likes you, but the problem is, neither one of you wants to admit it to one another. Don't deny it, because NOBODY denies their heart!
2006-10-19 10:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means your subconscious still has not found closure with him.. time will solve it..
2006-10-19 10:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfeyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋