i recently found out that my sons friends dad is single. i know the dads ex but we arent friends but when i do see her we are friendly; i know them thru my sons little league. is it wrong to ask him for a drink? I didnt even know they were divorcing cause they get along great... he always takes the time to come talk to me whenever i see him... hmmmm?
2006-10-19 10:30:58 · 18 answers · asked by schnoz.berries 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, ask him for a drink. That might be exactly what he needs right now after his divorce.
2006-10-19 10:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you know the answer.... Its seems to make you feel a little bad. Its not wrong to have a drink with anyone really no matter who they are. If he is single and you are single there is absolutely no reason why you can't, except you feel kinda trashy about it. Like what kind of person am I to go out with a man I know to be with this other woman. To me its just bad joo joos. If you are going to be in a wonderful relationship thats healthy and you can scream your happiness from the mountain tops its a lil hard when you have lil stipulations like trying not to have "some people" find out.
2006-10-19 11:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by lbacig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. You're interfering in the life of a man who appears to not even be divorced yet, and even if he was, it's most often not right.
And what is the situation with your divorce? You act as though none of this matters.
Not even to mention the fact that women asking men out is normally not the protocol.
I figured that there would be a lot of clueless people on here telling you to go for it.
2006-10-19 10:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
biggest mistake you can make is to ask a guy out. All the guys I know like to do the asking. Just be patient and continue to talk to him and do a little flirting. If he does think of you in this way, he will ask you out eventually. Just be patient! If he is recently divorced, he may not be ready to date yet.
2006-10-19 10:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, a good, quality man is hard to find. If he is, go for it. Tell him you baked a pie and Invite him over for some pie and coffee one evening. Sounds innocent, right? Take it from there. And an ex is an ex. If you're worried about her, drop a hint to her and see how she reacts. BUT, if he is fair game, he is fair game. You go ahead girl.
2006-10-19 10:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your approach be, ''Wanna have a drink''? That's so ''Hey I wanna get laid''. Why not invite him over to your house for a evening BBQ, a good movie, and ''adult smoothies''. Try something more grown up than ''Wanna have a drink''...please!!
2006-10-19 10:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to find out my this hot single dad suddeningly became single - he might not be so hot-------but unless you ask and take a chance you will never know-- be careful and good luck
2006-10-19 11:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they officially divorced? If not I say wait until they are.
People change their minds, things happen. If the divorce isn't final, wait.
2006-10-19 10:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ilsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im single too !
I wish sometimes a woman would let me know they are interested .
Its nice to know we aree on the same page.
2006-10-19 10:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care! The thing may chage its direction.
2006-10-19 10:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋