2006-10-19 09:58:37 · 15 answers · asked by hexjosep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Misunderstandings ?? They usually aren't misunderstandings, that's why. Its either you didn't listen or you lied.
2006-10-19 10:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's why: Because men generally act like they're stupid and try to play dumb in order to get out of getting in trouble for things they did. For example, how many times have you heard a grown man say, "I didn't know!" or "I don't know!" or "How was I supposed to know!" or "I'm clueless, you know that" when they are grown adults and hold down jobs and pay thier taxes like everybody else, yet they were COMPLETELY unaware that sleeping with your sister would hurt your feelings!!!
But I digress; women, well I can't speak for all of them but, many I know of, spend a lot of time and take a lot of care to be completely aware of absolutely everything in the world including and most importantly, other peoples feelings. Oftentimes a woman would rather get hit by a train than to hurt someones feelings, especially her man's. So, she makes all this effort to keep peace, and then he does some boneheaded thing for like, the 36th time this year, and he yells "I didn't know!!" and she gets upset and stays upset.
This is my take, anyway.
2006-10-19 10:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend will carry a grudge for months for use in later "misunderstandings" and often it is a comment or joke I made that I didn't even know was offensive to him. Doesn't sound so forgiving to me.
2006-10-19 10:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what it is. Men are not as forgiving as women when it comes to cheating.
2006-10-19 10:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jason D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are more sensitive than men are. When we get hurt, our feelings are hurt and it takes us longer to "heal". Men just want to forgive, forget and get on with life.
2006-10-19 10:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men can be a bit stubborn at times when women can move on and forget about it men won't.
2006-10-19 10:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by antionette_jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men know they are prone to make mistakes and errors and realize it comes with the territory. Women are usually right and not used to making mistakes so they tend to get upset over mistakes moreso than fallable males.
2006-10-19 10:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have a hard time letting things go. They get emotional and sometimes over analyze things. They always think deeply when things are said and done. That's just how it is.
2006-10-19 11:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are very senitive. And see things as we want right or wrong.
We just wont agree to everything even a misunderstanding.
2006-10-19 10:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women care more then men.
2006-10-19 10:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋