I met this girl she likes me but she is scared of commitment how do i get her to commit she thinks im a very nice guy romantic sensitive smart funny and all but she dont want to commit to me why if im the greatest guy she ever met why dont she want me by the way those r her words about me being great.
2006-10-19 09:27:49 · 14 answers · asked by Vinny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey i put a period or two in there. and i am not pushing her
2006-10-19 09:32:25 · update #1
The only thing you can do is give her time. Everyone has their own timeline in relationships. She may have some past relationship issues that have molded her into what she is today - cautious.
Just enjoy her company and eventually something will happen - she will commit to you or she will leave.
2006-10-19 09:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sirena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she is scared to commit to a relationship and then prove to her that you are none of those things/wont do those things to her. And give her some time. You cant make her change her mind but you can make her see why she would want to.
2006-10-19 09:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush her. It clear she's not jumping into anything right now. Just be there for her and be a friend. If and when she's ready she'll make a commitment eventually.
2006-10-19 09:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably been burned really bad. Its hard to commit when someone hurt you really bad.. The only thing that will help is time and allowing her to trust you. She'll come around
2006-10-19 09:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want her you have to be patient. Some girls need a little time. If you try to push her into it then it will make her run for the hills!!!! :) If she really thinks your a great guy then she will come around.
2006-10-19 09:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question depends on how long you know her. If it has been months, then maybe she should commit to something. If it is only a short time, then do not rush it.
2006-10-19 09:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by penpal_andrew_also 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's not ready. Dont push her, or else your going to scare her away.
2006-10-19 09:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you just met her , thats a little to fast. But if not, Shes just not ready.
2006-10-19 09:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh! Lack of punctuation makes me unable to answer questions! ::falls over::
2006-10-19 09:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Lissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you much be yourself she sounds like she been hurt before and i would not want you to hurt her if your not serious about her try talking to her a little more deeper commincation is always the best way
2006-10-19 09:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by Gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋