2006-10-19 09:24:09 · 12 answers · asked by lexi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
say he gets off work at 3pm and gets home at 8pm he tells me not to worry about what he does. I'm not his mother..
2006-10-19 09:25:58 · update #1
say he gets off work at 3pm and gets home at 8pm he tells me not to worry about what he does. I'm not his mother..
2006-10-19 09:26:05 · update #2
Look at it this way... It's a good thing you aren't married to him... and it's a good thing you don't have kids involved... Now you can move on with a clear mind... Think more about yourself... you deserve better...
2006-10-19 09:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't live together without being married because the urg to do it will overcome you if you put yourself in the situation. But if you get married you want to make sure you will take care of the kids and that your bf will too. If he swears a lot then you might want to forget it because that is a very bad influence on little kids.
2006-10-19 16:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that he is spending some time with someone else between work and getting home. If he can not be honest with you on all aspects of his life then he is not the one for you. When he says that your not married and dont have kids that is basically saying that he is not committed enough to you for that and he is not ready to get seroius in a relationship with you.I have lived with my BF for almost 3 years and it doesnt take kids or marriage to be honest with eachother. I would get rid of him. there are many other eligable men out there that will treat you with much more respect than that looser. Good Luck
2006-10-19 16:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's "your boyfriend" and he's out toodling around somewhere because "you're not married to him?" Well, then, just how much are you charging him for sex, house keeping, etc.? Or are you giving it all away for free? Get rid of him. Do not take that kind of treatment from anyone.
2006-10-19 16:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by beckydmc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be glad you're not married and you don't have kids. This guy is a loser. He's hiding something. Maybe a girlfriend on the side? Dump him, move on.
2006-10-19 16:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to run while you can. That is a big big mistake putting up with someone like that. He will mistreat you and maybe abuse you. So do it for yourself and get out. Look out for yourself first!!!
2006-10-19 17:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is correct- His body his choice. You are living with him without a contract so you can't really complain if he is freelancing on the side. Why do women think they have ownership papers on men, but God forbid we try to tell them what to do, then we are "controlling" or "abusive."
2006-10-19 16:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Trip S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy is a piece of work. Your making a huge mistake staying with him.
2006-10-19 16:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you. Otherwise, he would include you in what he is doing or at least tell you what he has been doing. Get out of this relationship. it is a waste of your time.
2006-10-19 16:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big mistake. Get out of there and get rid of him, then start your life over.
2006-10-19 16:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋