2006-10-19 08:48:55 · 14 answers · asked by mg1555 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IF UR HUBBY DIAPPROVES I SUGGEST U LISTEN TO UR HUBBY TO AVOID ANY CONFLICTS IN BETWEEN U TWO
2006-10-19 08:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you don't already know the root cause of his disapproval, get to it. You can continue to be friends with her, but at what cost with your marriage? Not that he'd divorce you, but maybe he's just concerned that your ex will still be in the picture that way or that you'll have some interaction with him, and if he's insecure about that it will be a problem. He needs reassurance. Help him understand why you want to still be friends with her and compromise if you can.
2006-10-19 19:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My ex sister in law is a very good friend of mine...sometimes friends last longer than marriages. Just because one thing doesn't work doesn't mean you should give up on another.
2006-10-19 16:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married but still keep in touch with an ex-boyfriend's mom. We were close the two years he and I dated and we want to remain in touch. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. We don't get together or talk on the phone - it is just purely through email.
2006-10-19 16:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do anything you want but I can understand why he feels that way--he wants a clean break with his ex and her family. You need to talk with him and reassure him that you like her for who she is, and that you don't bring him into the conversation (which I hope you don't). If he still doesn't agree, then you have to weigh what's more important to you--your friendship and independent decision-making ability or your husband.
2006-10-19 21:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are maintaining a healthy relationship with your husband he has no right to tell you who you can be friends with. This is about his insecurity, not about anything you have done. Tell him to get over it. If you stop being friends with her he will find something else in your life over which he can feel insecure.
2006-10-19 15:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it depends on why your husband does not approve of her. For a marriage to be healthy, there is going to be some giving and some taking.
2006-10-19 15:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to stop talking to her. I am in a situation where my sister n law feels that we shouldn't talk to one of my brother's ex's....I don't agree. We should be free to talk to whomever and not feel bound when doing so.
2006-10-19 15:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do whatever you want. It's not like you're going shopping with your ex husband.
2006-10-19 15:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to be friends with whomever you want... I would think that your husband is a bit controlling or extremely jealous..
2006-10-19 15:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea but dont get mad if she starts talking about how pretty your ex husbands new girlfriend is
2006-10-19 15:53:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋