He has changed in a lot of ways. I don't understand why. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I need to do? He's just not the same.
2006-10-19 08:46:47 · 27 answers · asked by panda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Support what he is doing. He has made a decision to preach the Gospel of Jesus Christ and you should be proud. I know that it is a lot of women out here waiting for good, Christian men to come their way. A lot of his ways will change b/c he is a different man now(different in his thinking, in his actions and his lifestyle) Do you attend Church with him? Your marriage will be much better if the two of you will get on the same agenda.
2006-10-19 08:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mans point of view
I believe you he has changed but haven't changed to?Life isn't static it is always changing. Can you remember what attracted you to him in the first place. Are those qualities still there?
Don't assume that he knows that you are having concerns Talk to him , set aside a time when your alone with him and tell him. A marriage takes work, I was married 22 years and didn't know till it was to late . Don't make my mistake.
2006-10-19 15:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by danzka2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of ways has he changed? You mentioned that he's a preacher. Do you think that has to do with why he is different today? I think the best thing is talk to talk to him and find out what's going on.
2006-10-19 15:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Express your concerns to your husband. Make a list of what is bothering you so that you when you do talk to him you can focus on what is most important. Consider taking some time for just the two of you....a monthly date or a weekend getaway. You might also want to consider counseling. There are many Christian based counseling programs at local churches for couples who are struggling.
2006-10-19 15:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by LolaCabana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, people change
what do you expect? don't say you haven't changed.
It depends what kind of changes are being made. If we're talking about negative changes that are clearly bad or immoral, then maybe you have reason to be concerned, otherwise if he is just growing in different areas or just doing things that you happen to not be interested in, then grow up. You can't expect people to be exactly like you want them for the rest of their lives.
2006-10-19 16:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't explain how he has changed. SO, it is hard to tell you what to do.
Counseling would be good.
Just because he is a preacher doesn't mean he isn't human.
He might be depressed or he might be overwhelmed with his duities at work. He might just be burned out. See if you can get him to talk to you. If not, as him for marital counseling.
2006-10-19 15:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and find out why he has changed. Maybe its time for you to change too. Life and marriage is about growth and communication. Sometimes we forget that we should be constantly growing ie changing and stay at the same place.
2006-10-19 15:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by Almack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it would help if you told all of us how your hubby has changed. okay?
He is a preacher? Hmm... Has he changed in more of a Godly way? If so... Maybe you should change with him! If you dont want to... Then talk to him about it.
2006-10-19 15:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men usually start acting weird if they have feelings for another women. Or if there cheating, or just thinking about it. You said he is a preacher? Maybe he is starting to question hes beliefs
2006-10-19 15:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by Indiana Jonas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As we get older, we do tend to change. I would talk to him about the changes he has made and you really need to decide if these are changes you can live with or not. If not, then perhaps its time for a few changes of your own. Blessed be..........
2006-10-19 15:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋