How do u in particular do that inyour daily life?
What are the feelings when u are doing it (giving and luving ur relatives and family).
Actually I have a problem that my bro does not like conversating with me. Im his only sister and 3 years younger to him. He always talks alot with my elder girl and boy cousins. Our conversations however end with a uyes or no from his side. Even if Itry to prolong a conversation ...he almost always puts a dead stop. How can I get him to not think less of me. Hes not such a bad guy. Hes got integrity and is doing a job so is earning. he also sometimes buyes stuff for me. But his attitude is so aloof. Its not normal. Ive seen bros and sisters talkin and I feel so left out. Sometimes while my mom, dad, him and I are sittin together he will almost ignore me completely.
Hes leavin for Norway in like 11-12 days and I have been tryin to get him to talk to me for the past God knows how many years. Im 23 hes 26.
2006-10-19 08:41:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
When we were young (till I was about 17-18) he called me stupid alot Which Im not. Im pretty normal. Not very social though.
I respect him alot too. I dont shout scream or yell at him. Im polite and thats in my nature.
2006-10-19 08:42:13 · update #1
You are asking if the love that you have for your brother should be unconditional, even if he is not the nicest person in the world to you? You can be sure that no matter what he thinks of you personally, that family love still exists. Your brother would probably be the first person to give his life for you. Perhaps this voyage to Norway will change his viewpoint. For now, your answer is YES. When it comes to family, you cant be an EXPECTER. You should continue to give him all the love in your heart. This you should do for yourself, though, and not for him. Giving love is a reward in itself. He may not be recieving as much reward as you do, but thats his loss. Dont worry. He will come around.
2006-10-19 08:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by mcynnis1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter and tell him what you feel,give it to him before he leaves or on the day he leaves,but dont expect a reply,because if one doesn't come youll be let down by expectations.realize also that he's in his mind thinking about whats him,like you he cant read your thoughts,I think your expecting too much and not realizing that you are a part of him always
2006-10-19 08:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably, he is jealous of you.
2006-10-19 08:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by chilly_lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT EVERYTHING THAT CAN BE COUNTED COUNTS AND NOT EVERYTHING THAT COUNTS CAN BE COUNTED.
2006-10-19 12:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by HADITDUN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sure!!
2006-10-19 08:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋