I like this one guy and I like his brother, one has half the qualities I look for in a guy and the other has the other half of the qualities, togehter they have them all. and both have feelings for me, but I can't date them both. what should I do?
2006-10-19 08:40:59 · 12 answers · asked by shadowed_desire_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The help you need is to educate yourself, go to school, do your homework and get to a level where you are more than a damp patch on your own panties. When you become a little more mature and think with the stuff between your ears and not your crutch, you'll be worth more and have more self worth. Grow up what is happening to you people. You know nothing of life, nothing whatsoever about love, you seem to live and think with your genitals. It's not funny, it's not big and it will lead to you being in your own living nightmare.
2006-10-19 08:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date some one who has all of the qualities, You'll find him. just keep them two as friends. If you ask one of them, the other will not like you for choosing him. And the whole friendship between both is going to b ruined.
2006-10-19 15:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by i.d.k.u. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is forget them and find a guy who has the qualties that you are looking for. Believe me if you compermise you will be sorry in the future.
So what if they have feelings for you and so what if you have feelings for them. MOVE On. Those feelings will pass. So many people think they have to act on feelings and then they end up with someone who isn't what they need or want.
It is better to be without a boyfriend than to be with someone that isn't what you need. Be strong and move on.
2006-10-19 15:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you date someone that only has half the qualities you are looking for?
2006-10-19 15:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by hutmikttmuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date somebody else with all the qualities. No sense is settling for half.
2006-10-19 15:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by J L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with brothers. Your answer is right in your face! Find ONE man with ALL the qualities!! You won't truly be happy til you do! Why make trouble for brothers?
2006-10-19 15:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one treats you the best? Which one do your true feelings go to? Which one is the oldest of them? Which one is close to your age, even if older than you? Think about it and next time you have them both in front of you, toss a coin.
2006-10-19 15:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont date either one..b cuz if you have feelings for them both and they both have feelings for you..You'r going to end up hurting one's feelings by dating the other..
2006-10-19 15:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN girl....Don't even continue with either of them. They should know better than to do that. It's not worth splitting up a family and you shouldn't even want to do that if you cared about them.
2006-10-19 15:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could find someone else or u could figure out which one u like the most!!
2006-10-19 15:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by wHiTe & NeRdY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋