2006-10-19 08:30:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And for the record he moved into MY home
2006-10-19 08:42:16 · update #1
my mum knows whats going but every time she tries to talk to him he thinks she's standing up for me and then she gets caught in the middle
2006-10-19 08:59:51 · update #2
If you're over 18, move out. If you're under 18, get a job after school to keep you occupied and plan to attend an out of state school for college.
2006-10-19 08:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by J L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mum, she loves you as well as you're step-dad, maybe she isnt aware of how you feel, u dont say how old u r, but i guess u always need ur parents. Done be afraid to chat with ur mum, she will want you all to be happy, and some of this is probably down to nerves on the side of your step-dad, coming into a family is hard and scary, maybe he's not sure how he should treat you, talking is the only way forward here, good luck with it all.
2006-10-19 08:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what, sometimes you just can't make some people happy. Don't fret over it. If you are still in school, just avoid him and talk to you mom about it. If you are old enough to move out then by all means do that. If you are still in school and just can't make things wrok then move in with your real Dad, a close friend or other relative. Being beaten down by someone else is the worst for your self esteem.
2006-10-19 08:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a suggestion see if you can could set down with your mom and step dad to discuss the issue that you are having with each other. That why everyone would be on one page and you and him will have someone there to make that the both of you are listen to each other.
2006-10-19 08:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by foxy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DO NOT KNOW HOW OLD YOU ARE ? , BUT YOUR MUM HAS CHOSEN THIS MAN TO BE YOUR STEP DAD SO I THINK YOU SHOULD TRUST HER JUDGEMENT ,
I KNOW ITS HARD CAUSE ITS NOT YOUR CHOICE , SO I THINK YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOUR MUM TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL, AND BETWEEN YOU FIND A WAY TO APPROACH YOUR STEP DAD TO TALK ABOUT THE WAY THINGS ARE.
IF HE IS A REASONABLE MAN HE WILL CONSIDER YOUR VIEWS AND ACCEPT THE FACT YOU HAVE TO ALL LIVE TOGETHER AND IT WOULD BE BEST FOR ALL TO GET ON
HE SHOULD OF ACCEPTED THE FACT THAT YOU AND YOUR MOTHER COME AS A PACKAGE AND HE HAS TO MAKE THE EFFORT JUST AS MUCH AS YOU WILL HAVE TO ACCEPT HIM,
SO TALK TO YOUR MUM
GOOD LUCK AND ALL THE BEST
2006-10-19 08:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam a mum with a son from a previous relationship his stepdad moans at him quite a bit but it isnt because he loves him anyless than our son i think my son feels because he isnt his dad he picks on him but it not true he just pushes him a bit further as he knows he is not his dad so it s just conflict but try to nail it on the head now before it getd out of control
2006-10-19 08:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by kerry g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal not to get on with step-dads, I didn't get on with any of my mom's boyfriends...after all nobody can replace your dad can they? I used to think if I can't have my dad, then I just couldn't accept any other man in the house.
2006-10-19 08:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by bottywot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had a step-dad for 13 years now.. the 1st thing i said to him is..'i hate you'!! but now we get along the best! (i have 2sis & 1bro &1 step-bro.) all he ever used to do is moan! it takes time but it does get better!!!!!
2006-10-19 08:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of i are under 18 maybe u could try talking to your mom and explain to her how it makes u feel, the best thing u can do is try your best to ignore him and if u can't maybe tell him what you feel and think and if neither your mom or him can repect you then maybe you could stay with a family member for awhile
2006-10-19 08:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by skybaby226 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have to see my step-dad beat my mum up, just think to yourself he might be a boring sod but it could be worse = )
2006-10-19 08:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by Fairy Nuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋