How long did this marriage last/ is lasting?
Bf and I are thinking of tying the knot but i'm scared of our lack of relationships with others prior to getting together. Is that normal?
2006-10-19 08:28:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I married my college sweet heart. We were married 17 years....12 of them were pretty good.
2006-10-19 08:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my high school sweetheart. We went to college together and now we're married. I don't think a lack of relationships matter. Why do you have to go through the bad and the wrong relationships to know you're in the right one? Sometimes people look down on others who get married "too young" but divorce rates are about the same in every age group, whether you get married at 20 or 40.
2006-10-19 09:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my high school sweetheart. We started dating in 10th grade (15 years old) and we got married when we were 20. We have been married for 2 1/2 years now and things couldn't be better. We have a 13 month old little boy and we just bought our 2nd house. I was scared in the beginning about not ever "being" with anyone else but we talked about it and decided that we wouldn't have it any other way. It makes the relationship all the more precious.
2006-10-19 08:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by It's a secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my high school sweetheart about two months after graduation..... It lasted 10 years.... untill he wanted a seperation and moved a girl in with him from Cali while we were just seperated and "working on things".... LOL we divorced a few months later..... he married her and thinks he is happier..... oh well.... they don't always last... but then again some of them do...........
2006-10-19 08:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Missledtngirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. It is important that you are sure that this person is THE person that you want to spend the rest of your life with. That being said, it is risky to spend time apart to date other people because one of you might realize that there is somebody else out there for you. This will leave one of you out in the cold. However, it might reaffirm your decision to marry. I guess it just depends upon your relationship and how strong it is.
2006-10-19 08:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by badbasco423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's normal, then it is. personally, it's not. i usually like to compare, try out and get to know what i need from dating different guys. but people are different. if you feel it's right, then it is. remember one thing: good choice does not guarantee good result. so whatever you choose now, you have no control of the future. just do the right thing for the present moment and don't worry about the future.
2006-10-19 08:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my high school sweetheat...we were married for 13 yrs..I got 2 wonderful sons out of it. I still care deeply for my ex husband,we just couldnt live together any longer.
2006-10-19 09:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by royale_brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i married my best friends sister from high school......she was a year younger......we kept it from the world all thru h.s ...even her brother....my best friend. real hard to do! 4 yrs.........after graduation we eloped.......to sevierville .tenn.......it took 30 min & 50$.......we had a son ....named joshua.howard...she got pregnant on our honeymoon...but it only lasted 3 yrs total...she developed a real bad drug& alcohol problem......it was easy cause she got it free......she was an underage bartender....but i dont regreat it one bit ...id do it all over again!to this day ....the greatest 7 years of my life!
2006-10-19 08:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Met him junior year in high school and now we are happily married. I love him so much!!!
2006-10-19 08:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I DID AND WE WILL HAVE 3 YRS MARRIED IN APRIL SO FAR SO GOOD
2006-10-19 08:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋