people always tell me im taking the wrong aproach to turn the tide on a bad marriage between interracial unity, what about her doiung the same for me, why is it always the mans fault? you women are all one sided and selfish and stupid if you think its always the mans fault, do me a big favor and keep out of the answers unles your a qualified person to deal with interracial marriage and family issues.i need a chinese perspective, dont answer if your not chinese for real.
2006-10-19 08:26:25 · 10 answers · asked by gregory s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-10-19 08:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sunspot Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.... angry. If you don't want an average persons perspective, then you need to make an appointment with a chinese counselor who specializes in interracial marriage. No need to get abusive toward people who are just trying to answer a publicly posted question.
Intercultural marriage is difficult... no matter what races, nationalities, or religions are involved. It takes both parties to make concessions and to try to understand each other. It should never be onesided. It may have been beneficial for you to have considered pre-marital counseling.... instead of letting yourself become so frustrated and angry. But if you love your wife,... give it a try. You can only benefit.
2006-10-19 08:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Laura Schlessinger.
It tackles the issue of women who mistreat their men and suffer the consequences of unhappiness. The women who criticize their husbands are depressed in their marriages and feel little love from their husbands. Man is a "very simple creature," who needs only "direct communication, respect, appreciation, food, and good loving'" to respond with devotion, compassion and love. Every woman can achieve a deeply satisfying marriage if she adheres to certain fundamentals men require. Preparing dinner, caring for the children without complaint, greeting her husband with a kiss and engaging in sexual intimacy instead of "tearing down a husband's necessary sense of strength and importance" can result in the harmonious marriage women crave.
Sorry- is that a Chinese thing, or a marriage thing?
2006-10-19 08:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess i am qualified to answer your question here. I am asian...so what is your race? intercultural is hard enough let alone interracial ones. i don't think it's always women's faults at all. a relationship takes two to form and only takes one to break. you didn't specify your questions and problems so it's kinda hard to know what to help you with. But one thing sounds pretty clear to me: there is a lot of anger in you and you don't really respect your wife! professional counselling is a good way to seek help also! best....
2006-10-19 08:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My horse develop into like that as quickly as we've been given her, yet we've been working along with her on it and this is how we did it. We positioned the halter and lead on her and each and every time she tried to push previous us we jerked the lead rope up and down till she subsidized up somewhat some steps. Then only stroll on and repeat each and every time she does that. If that doesn't artwork, you may attempt smacking her on the nostril with the top of the lead rope and only persevering with to stroll and repeating. you additionally can check out John Lyons, Josh Lyons, or somebody like that. undergo in ideas that if she does not do what you ask her, you will make her artwork. do no longer enable her enable you to already know while she's gonna artwork, or for a fashion long. Be the boss, and each and every time she gets too pushy, make her pass her ft. i do no longer care if this is like lunging or best now backing, you need to make her pass once you choose her to. you additionally can attempt making use of a sequence on your rope, yet try to be extra careful while making use of it over or under the nostril/chin. If making use of the chain, I very practically continually double it up and hook it to itself. Then once you jerk the rope, it provides an further little bit to creating the horse pass. desire it somewhat works for you!
2016-12-08 17:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your marriage is going down the tubes...say bye bye. BOTH partners have to respect each others different cultural, religious, and economical backgrounds. If she can't respect yours, and you aren't willing to deal with that...you aren't going to get very far. As a matter of fact, you'll probably get nowhere but divorce court.
2006-10-19 08:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly isn't only the man's fault, or in this case, completely YOUR fault. BUT....if you want the marriage to last you will at least need to make some compromise. You can not change her. You can only change yourself. If you can't make it work the way you desire... leave.
2006-10-19 08:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, you have my sympathy.
Its obvious to me that you should never have been married in the first place. You have a lot of resentment. It is only a matter of time until that resentment eats you up.
Get it over with soon for your own health.
TX Guy
2006-10-19 08:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry guy, but you have alot to learn about women, I cannot side with you on this one.
2006-10-19 08:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK
2006-10-19 08:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋