Here's the deal: I met this girl and from the moment I saw her, I've wanted her. We became friends, I asked her out, she said yes. We went out, things went well but like an absoloute idiot, I didn't kiss her. And she wanted me 2 (as she has since let me know) But that chance has gone
We have become pretty good friends. She told me recently, if I remember correctly, that 'She loves me to bits and wants nothing 2 change between us. I think we could have the greatest f*ckin friendship'
But she doesn't think she can like me 'in that way.' I, however, have been getting deeper and deeper and she doesn't know just how much I care 4 her. We talk just about everyday online (she just moved away for Uni) and I see her a few times a month.
She's back nxt week and when she asked if I'm gonna see her, I was a little hesitant. I LOVE spending time with her but @ the same time, it hurts 'cause I just wanna hold her, touch her, tell her how wonderful she is but I can't.
Advice please :)
2006-10-19 08:25:21 · 9 answers · asked by Random Mandom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think you can blow your chances at not having a relationship off of one missed chance at a kiss. If so, sorry. But when she comes back in town you should definitely see her! She's your friend if nothing else and you wouldn't want to end the friendship right? If your feelings are that strong just kiss her after you hang out one day and see what happens. She may just be playing hard to get.
2006-10-19 08:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she really is a great person. The best thing to do is just to tell her. Nothing's going to happen unless you come face-to-face with your problem. Tell her that you like spending time with her, but you still really do care for her. Even if she doesn't care about you as you do about her, but if you acknowledge your feelings to her, she might take a different persepective of you. If she still just wants to be friends, respect that. Even if you don't spend the rest of your life together, at least you will still be good friends.
2006-10-19 15:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by jessi.swimchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her then you should just tell her because the longer you wait the more it's going to hurt. If you just avoid her then you will just end up making her feel bad. Then you might loose her as a friend too.
By,
Honey
2006-10-19 15:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by honey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly your friend than you need to be honest with her. Things may change but if you don't I see it as lying to her. She needs all the facts to make a decision and without them it wont work as a friendship or relationship. good luck
2006-10-19 15:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anna L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Stick your neck out, it may get lopped off, but if not, you have your relationships.
If she rejects you, you will find someone else that appreciates who you are.
2006-10-20 11:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by iamqueww 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get on with your life and find another girl to like!
2006-10-19 15:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by Carolinex3™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a one-sided love, then... =/
2006-10-19 15:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My advice is learn how to spell stupid.
2006-10-19 16:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by Pencil 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON
2006-10-19 15:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by mpkardinal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋