If you cheated, why did you? Are you sorry or is it still a secret? I'm just curious
2006-10-19 08:21:19 · 38 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have cheated on boyfriends. NEVER since marriage.
Best Wishes!
2006-10-19 08:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have cheated before,and YES I did and still do regret it. I have never cheated since i've been married,but my husband cheated on me,and I we have a 15month old together. I would never even think about cheating,but now that he has i feel i could care less if I did but I haven't, I think maybe some times when u cheat it can cause you to lose the person u where ment to be with.
2006-10-19 08:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by skybaby226 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got married to a man i thought he is the biggest love in my life. And i know now he is. But after 2 months marriage he deployed for 6 months and i met another guy i thought he is my soulmate. He was funny and we had a very good time and i had somebody who entertained me. And he was a good guy. I knew it was wrong that i cheated and i knew my husband didn't! But when he came back everything changed. First because i acted different because i had another dude and second he knew something is wrong and third he changed,too because he was in the war fighting for his country and he saw a lot of ****. Finally i told him that i was cheating and it was a big, dirty, hurtful fight. I just could not see him so hurting anymore because he thought something is wrong with me and i was propably cheating on him. So we broke up.Anyways i lived for 2 months with the other guy and it didn't work out because he wasn't the guy i really loved. And even if we thought we are soulmates we were not! Normal life had us back and we had a lot of issues. So now my husband and me are back together. It took a long time to earn a lil bit trust back and we had long long conversations about everything what happend. The biggest punishment for me now is to know i really hurt somebody i really love and to know i did something like that to somebody who would give up everything for me. So everybody should really think about doing something like that and the consequences.
2006-10-19 08:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by destiny12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and it was because we were fighting not having sex
and the relationship was pretty much over .I was sorry that cheated because when i did i was drunk and the girl though was good looking, did not get to see the real me and she was a fill in of what i really wanted.No it is not a secret I told my exgirlfriend the next day.
2006-10-19 08:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by vannzannt20002000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated in my life. Never would either! I have been cheated on 3 times in my life. I know how it feels... And couldnt imagen doing that to someone I love or had even fallin out of love with. No one has a good enough reason to cheat. Once a cheater always a cheater!
2006-10-19 08:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
this guy I was walking with once pushed me up against the wall at my school and kissed me, I pushed him away but to this day I am not sure if it is cheating. My boyfriend of 4 years would make me tell him who it is and then beat him up pretty good... so I never told him. It kind of feels good to get this out in the open right now.
2006-10-19 08:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cheated once and even though it was years ago and I am no longer with the guy I still feel a bit like a worm. That may be why I hate cheaters now. I know what pain it can cause someone you love.
2006-10-19 08:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have cheated on my husband. But I told him. I felt bad about him not knowing what I done. We are a happy now.
2006-10-19 08:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have........with my bestfriends boyfriend. Yeah...I'm not to happy about that part, but they told me they broke up so yeah oh well. Other than that I don't regret it. My boyfriend wasn't all that amusing and I honestly think he's gay, but yeah. I stayed the night with my cousin and my friends ******* hot boyfriend just happened to be there so yeah. No one knows and I agree with the other answer its not cheating unless you're caught. Have fun.
2006-10-19 08:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sissy Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated ON. The woman came out and told me as if it was no big deal and expected to move on casually.
When she realized the seriousness of the situation, she couldn't seem to understand why.
Good thing I moved onto a much better woman.
2006-10-19 08:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋