My wife and I have had one threesome.I mentioned this to a friend of mine while we were out having a few beers one night.He had already mentioned to me how he thought my wife was sexy.Now he wants to enjoy her with me.How do I go about asking my wife to have the threesome and should I even ask her at all?She enjoyed the first one but I am not sure if she would do it again.
2006-10-19 08:14:05 · 14 answers · asked by dad_e_cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Threesomes can be fun.But youve already been there done that. Why would you want to again? Is this what your friend wants or what you want? AND WHY would you want to share your wife with anybody? Even if she does say yes, it might be because ththat is what she thinks YOU want, not what SHE wants. Good Luck either way!
2006-10-19 08:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by )o( 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did the first threesome involve you and her and another man or you and her and a woman? Because if she enjoyed the first one and the second one is different, she might not enjoy it as much. I think once is enough ---just to say you did it. I would think it'd be awkward with a friend also.
2006-10-19 08:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by lesliehope24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id ask her. You never know, it could turn out to be great and if you want, a more regular thing. Also, when its with a friend you tend to be more relaxed and you also have a better idea of where the friend has been. Know one wants to pass up something and then think "Man, i should ahve gone for that.". Live life with as little regrets as possible and live it to its fulllest. If you want to and you think she will enjoy it then go for it and enjoy every minute of it!
2006-10-21 23:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by penguinatron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-10-22 20:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're playing with fire unless all three of you are on the same page; ask the wife and see what she thinks - if she's not 100% on board, ditch the idea.
2006-10-19 08:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just ask her. Afterall, she is your wife...if you can't be open with her who can you be open with? Just make sure that you are ready for the answer. And also, if she does say yes make sure you and your friend go over the "guidelines" because she is YOUR wife.
2006-10-19 08:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by It's a secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You suggested you and your BF needed to have a three-some? properly, you needless to say gave him the eco-friendly easy to discover issues in case you suggested you needed to have one besides. individually, i could call the finished undertaking off as a foul theory, or a minimum of, threaten to leave his *** if he does not slowdown and permit you to be in touch interior the approach.
2016-10-02 11:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just ask if you wife dosent want to do it then i am sure she will tell you (if you dont ask you dont get)
2006-10-19 08:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never know unless you ask.
2006-10-19 08:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by hotsavannah21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey she might like your friend already so you proly won't have to beg
2006-10-19 08:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋