2006-10-19 08:13:17 · 20 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok if you want to keep your boyfriend
then you should dump him, beacuse you have to let him know that you are very upset by what he did to you, and it is not something you can forgive, men need to have boundaries and guidelines set for them, otherwise they will missbehave just like a any puppy, if you leave him and comes crawling back to you, then make him really work to get you back. and if he doesn't it means that he doesn't really care for you
if you don't want him back
then cheat, flirt or make a pass at one of his really good friends, nothing hurts more to a man, than a girl, not caring and fancying another man, men love to be the centre of attention, and you giving it to someone else, will make him feel not wanted, which is good as he should have never cheated on you
2006-10-19 08:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by monkey luv... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DUMP HIM
Even if you adore him- or love him--- you don't need to be with him. Most people on the planet love someone that they can't be with. You can't be wtih this guy....he is a cheater.
What you need to do is think highly of yourself and NOT let a bf cheat on you. You are worth way more than that. As a woman/girl you need to NOT let guys take advantage of you. You are worth having a guy who is faithful to you. Don't ever put up with boys who cheat.
You sound fairly young...you got lots of time to find a good guy.
Be strong and stand up for yourself. Tell him that you deserve a guy who doesn't cheat and that you are NO longer his girlfriend.
Don't let him sweet talk you. Ge firm tell him that you won't put up with a guy who messes around on you. Then, walk away.
If you caught him cheating once, most likely he is cheating more than you realize. You might want to take him back, if you do and he cheats on you again.....don't give him another chance. He has proven that he is not trustworthy.
2006-10-19 08:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd break up with him..there isnt no sense going through it..b cuz if you stay with him..you never know if he's going to do it again..and most likly when a guy cheats it's b cuz he has lost interest or doesnt care about you anymore..
2006-10-19 09:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. He is apparently a dumbass! A relationship with a cheating partner only leads to more complications.
2006-10-19 08:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by cowchic9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to do.
Boy friend's are not your future.
Women must first be able to stand on their own with out the support of any one have the best job in a best company,have a own houe with a nice car "BMW"
Boy friends will stand in "Q"
That is what my daughter did.
2006-10-19 08:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by SKG R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him and dont you dare fall for the I'm sorry I made mistake I love you and want you back deal cause if he really did care he would have never done it in the first place. move on your better off that way.
2006-10-19 08:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physically, nothing. You don't want to catch anything. Emotionally, say good bye. No need to stay with someone who doesn't value you enough to make you the only one.
2006-10-19 08:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get rid of him. all this shows you is that he is dirt and you are to good for him and you really shouldn't have to deal with him if he has so little faith in a relationship that probably could have gone great.
2006-10-19 08:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by shadowed_desire_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-10-19 08:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u weigh out the bad from tha good. and if that bad out wiegh tha good then u have to forgive him if u can
but i have to keep in mind when u do this, is it worth it?
2006-10-19 08:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jewels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋