Truthfully, are there any faithful men, especially ones that are married?

Question

I'm afraid of marriage and unfaithfulness, and liars... can a male really confess to be faithful for a lifetime to his wife?

Answer 1

no chance...we all need variety

Answer 2

Not every husband cheats but a lot of them do. Same applies to wives too. Polls show that although 90% of married people disapprove of extramarital relationships, statistics from a national survey indicate that 15% of wives and 25% of husbands have experienced extramarital intercourse. These numbers increase by 20% when emotional affairs and sexual relationships without intercourse are included. Another source, The Monogamy Myth, authored by Peggy approximates that 60% of husbands and 40% of wives will have an affair at some time in their marriage. Well depending on the poll about 1 in 2 husbands cheats.
Adultery can occur in happy marriages as well as unhappy ones. In some cases, the marriage partners may appear contented to outsiders, but the husband or wife begins an affair because of their own low self-esteem, habitual conflict avoidance, or fear of intimacy.
Other reasons for marital infidelity are typically symptomatic of an unhealthy, and often, failing marriage.
Adultry can be avoided or minimazed if husband and wife are communicating.

Answer 3

I have been married for almost 11 years (December) and I can say that he has been faithful. We have three beautiful children and we are very happy. I can't say it's been all balloons and birthday cake the whole time, we are like everyone, we have our ups and our downs. We have been together a total of 13 years and I wouldn't trade him for anything in this world. He is a wonderful father, a faithful, loving husband and a great provider. I

If a man wants to he can decide that the woman he is married to or is going to marry is the only one he wants in his life and it will be that way. A man is unfaithful by choice.

Answer 4

Yes, absolutely. I know many of them. Their secret? Simple. They're happy. The old saying "why go out for hamburger when you have steak at home" applies. Seriously, when a couple is the answer to each other's dreams, it's all good. These couples put each other FIRST above all else, jobs, money, even kids. They aim to make and keep each other happy in all aspects of their lives, physically, emotionally and financially. You can't use this place as a gauge on how it is "out there". People that post here are unhappy or have issues or problems. You don't see a lot of people saying how blissfully happy they are. Why would they? Misery loves company. Be confident, live your own life. "Puts down your quarters and takes yer chances"

Answer 5

Yes there are faithful men. And yes men that have cheated often are truly sorry they did it. The questino for you is what can you do so you aren't so afraid?

Now, for all those saying more men cheat than women I would point out that for every cheating man there is a woman cheating with him. I realize there are some fags that are married and humping other men but they are a small per cent of the total. Some of you idiots need to learn how to think before you come in here with your ignorant ideas.

Answer 6

Hey, over here, Hello! Yes it is me, the faithful one. We are still out here and don't give up hope. But just to remind you, men and women are people, and what are people not, Perfect. You may find the man of your life, he may make a mistake and then you and him get over it and never have a problem again, you may make a mistake. You don't know what the future holds just like the rest of us. I have seen many things in my life, some pretty shocking. I knew a lady once when I was younger and seen her kissing a man, not her husband, and 18 years later they are still together. I believe she knew she made a mistake and promised herself not to make a second one. You know life is a chance. I hope I helped, Good luck.

Answer 7

Sweetie, what are you so scared for? Not all men are unfaithful, trust me. There are alot of good men out there, the way that you select who you go out with determines who is trustworthy or not.
Tips: Has to be good to his Mother
Has hobbies or outdoor interest to occupy his time
Has a good group of male friends
Of course you have to do some work too, to make sure he can't wait to get home to you. Relax finding the right guy is worth the wait.

Answer 8

Sure, apathy. Women are too much trouble, and when you're married, you know this more than anyone else. It would take some effort to cheat for a guy and I hardly run into anyone I'd even want to be with.

Women probably cheat more than men do, since it requires no effort on their part.

Anyway, a girl would have to be really hot to be "worth it" and if she's that hot, she likely has better options than a stupid married guy like me. So kind of a catch-22.

Answer 9

I'm married on my second marrage and totally faithful, I hate to say this, but I matured late as my first marrage I cheated on a wonderful woman just for my self serving desires, second time around, I think differently,
I suggest strongly take your time and make sure you and your soul mate are on the same page, live together first, and go for a man that acts and is mature. it will reduce the chances of a self serving man.
Find a man that thinks you are nothing less than wonderful and wouldn't risk losing you.

You'll know it when you see it

Answer 10

Twenty two years here. I'm no worse the wear for it. We ARE all human. I guess that it just boils down to no matter how much temptation tosses itself up in your face, you have to have the discipline to say "naw......ain't worth it". Believe me...I've been tempted. Many times. Could I have gotten away with it? More than likely. The persons who I speak of were professional people who stood to lose just as much as I do if discovered. both career and family. Not being the gambling type...I chose not to stray.

I am not proud of this nor do I brag. Just letting you know that the benefits of screwing around did not out weigh the consequences of getting caught.

Answer 11

I have been married for 5 years, and together for almost 9 years. I have not once even thought of cheating. I have had opportunities, but no desire. If your query were true, there would be no hope for anyone since I believe there are just as many cheating women as men. If it is real love, there is nothing to worry about.