Everywhere I go. I get invloved in groups and activities, I'm friendly, but I never feel like I belong. I haven't made really any friends and I get really depressed. My husband is in the military so I'm far from home. Why can't I just make a few friends? What's so wrong with me.?
2006-10-19 07:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by little mama kat 23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You sound just like i did a couple of years ago.. don't feel you are an outsider just cause you can't blend with the others.. think of it this way.. perhaps you have more important things you would like to do.. maybe you just dont think like everyone else cause everyone else is not thinking right... get yourself busy.. and do things on your own.. you dont need a group of people to do fun things.. and while you are doing things you like then you might actually meet others that are a little more like you. Being a military wife can be hard. specially if you are alone.. but that is why is important for you to keep your self busy with doing things for your husband.. cute things.. and then do things for yourself... You are not an outsider.. everyone else is :)
2006-10-19 07:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear= its not you. Its military life.
Most folks the minute that find out your status, rank or job..your already behind the "8" ball.
I recommend that you contact friends from HOME and rekindle them. Those are the ones that will be in your heart no matter what base you at.
My best friend a former Officer's wife, has to be kicked sometimes for talking down to enlisted or wives when we are in the PX. Its just a status thing and it pisses me off- I"m not military and don't get the "rank" thing.
2006-10-19 07:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mum i see your melancolic in temparament and that's the reason but u could get ride of that if have someone u really can trust if u must be candid to urself ur husband have ur best friend even while at home. u see this temparamental problem happens cos am of ur type hardly make friends but very willing to trust the one i have i could do all to save a relationship but i can hardly go into one. so it normal untill u get ur march of any sex then u'll be relax cos it's not in u to have many friends just keep cool looking. success in your search.
Love
Elizabeth King
2006-10-19 07:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by ELIZABETH KING 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-31 23:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try so hard. Just do what ui enjoy doing and be considerate and friendly and you are bound to meet someone with the same interests/ routine as you. Thats how friendships start.. How about other military wives ????
2006-10-19 07:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by gdf888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should be more out going and meet people no matter how it makes u look it feels good knowing u tried but if they dont like u **** them who r they to u? all u need is family and if u find one good friend u r a step ahead in life because i have plenty of friends and i can name one out of the whole bunch that has always been there for me and thats a true friend.
2006-10-19 07:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Britney a college Stu. @ WSU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find friends that are interested in the same things and ask them over to your place.
Try to keep it a group setting 3 or more.
This will keep you encouraged while your husband is away fighting for our freedom.
2006-10-19 07:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by raecliff95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a 360 page. It's a start. I've met some interesting people through it already.
2006-10-19 07:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I have the same problem! I can't offer a solution either. Just don't give up. Someone will appreciate you and those are the people you want in your life anyhow.
2006-10-19 07:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be the crowd that you are always around is the one with a problem, find out what you like in people and try to be close to that may be you might just find where you belong
2006-10-19 07:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by ------------------------ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋