i talk to this lad online and ive been talking to him since march(i think) and we used 2 always talk alot but since i started university hes been kinda distance with me and we hardly talk and also he seems diferent to what he was like before. i think he may have got annoyed with me because i said i couldnt meet him and that i didnt answer his calls(my fone was on silent!!) but hes coming to birmingham this saturday and i was going to tell him that i could meet him but now im not sure because he seems so diferent and im not sure if i like that.
i used to like him more than a friend and he said he kinda did too but i didnt really believe him but now im just so confused grrrrr!! does anyone know what might be going on with him at first i thought that he really wanted to meet me and then he couldnt be bothered to talk to me just because i didnt answer his calls either. but now when he talks to me its always around the same topic.
i dnt want to lose him as a friend cus hes really nice!!
2006-10-19 07:25:05 · 5 answers · asked by ♥abi♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the great thing about online chatting is that you can pick up on moodiness and inconsistencies. you're right to doubt this person follow your instincts..you don't need him. they are plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-10-19 07:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels you lead him on to let him down! Boys dont like that!
Try asking him wats up? Explain that it was all a miss-understanding and that if he still wants to you would really like to meet him!
Tell him how bigger part of your life he has been for the pas 8/9 months and that you feel there could be something special between you. wever it be really good friends or more but make it clear to him that you dont like the way he has been behaving!
Try changing the topic just because your a girl it doesn't mean you cant ask the out rite questions! find out wats going on with him maybe its not u! maybe its something that's happened in the family!
Don't take it to heart he mite just be afraid of wat could be!
2006-10-19 23:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by ema 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go meet him, maybe you'll work out more from that. Ooh, maybe he's in love with you....
2006-10-19 07:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Katrina Van Tassel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't understand him neither
2006-10-19 07:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Eevi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what is bothering him!!! DUH!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-19 08:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by diamonddavedadude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋