i want my boyfreind to listen to me more... i basicly want tot wear the pants in the relationship ... but how can i make that happen
2006-10-19 06:59:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pull out the whip and teach him yiu are the boss
2006-10-19 07:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh lord girl! You are asking for trouble. Why do you think that either of you should wear the pants in a relationship? That is not what a relationship is about, it is give and take on both sides!!!
2006-10-19 14:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I know you asked for women only! But, why would you want to cut off your boyfriends nuts, so that you could wear the pants. Do you really want to take his manhood way from him. There other ways you can be in charge without him knowing and still leave his manhood in tacked. If you make him fell less of a man then you won't want him..
2006-10-19 14:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Captianpr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship isn't about "wearing the pants" ... you have to find the areas within yourself to have the control and you and your mate will find the common grounds of communication that work best for you.
Some times, he will be in control. Sometimes, you will be in control. It is about compromise. If he doesn't want to listen then he doesn't want to compromise and it doesn't sound as though the relationship will last.
2006-10-19 14:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your bf is a real man; then you will never wear the pants in your relationship. One it is not the natural order of our relationship with one another. Two, I don't think you would be attracted to a punk. JMO
2006-10-19 14:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way that is possible, is if you're in a relationship where Sub/Dom is key factor. Or your man is very passive. Most men will allow a bit of leverage. Guaranteed, they'll pull they wont allow to be stripped of their image.
2006-10-19 14:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not like that ...I just make sure he has his say and i empathize with him then i do it my way it always works for me.I also throw the occasional tantrum if things are not exactly my way.You need a weaker man if this is gonna work.Sex is always a good motivator too
2006-10-19 14:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by plumcouch30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to wear the pants, then you have to take them off More Often than you are. Men want a woman who will love them and honor them and if you do this - You will have him eating out of your hands. Men want and need respect give them this and they will love you and give you the desire of your heart.
2006-10-19 14:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships is about balance, it is a give and take thing. The thing is we have to respect each others feelings. You have to listen to each other, that is important. you can't make a person do what he does not want to do!
2006-10-19 14:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get on the same page as him. Me and my husband put both our ideas or point of view in and we balence it together. I have my say so sometimes and he does other times. Its all about "good" communication!! Let him know how you feel. But trust me you wont get your way all the time. Its a marriage!
2006-10-19 14:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer not to lead or to follow in a love relationship - but simply walk side by side my hubby.
2006-10-19 14:31:42 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋