When is it enough ?

Question

My husband is never satisfied with the amount of sex he gets. If its 2 times a week he wants 3. If its 3 times, he wants 4 and so on. Tell me ladies, when is enough enough?????

Answer 1

You are lucky and don't know it. He is obviously into you. If you're not enjoying it as much as him you've got to let him know what works for you. And sometimes you just have to do it for love of your man.

Answer 2

You should be thankful that he is interested in making love with you. When making love to your husband has to be put on a schedule that means that you are getting fed up with him. Making Love to someone that you love and want to be with for the rest of your life is suppose to be a pleasure and come naturally. not planned.If it is just to much for you to handle then why don't you plan it. ( I don't believe that he will agree & go along with your plan)But you should sit down with him and tell him about this absurd plan that you have and tell him the day & time of the week that you are wanting to make love with him. Most women are more worried that their husbands are cheating on them because their husbands are not making love to them that often but the way that you sound is like you wouldn't mind if he did cheat on you, then that way you wouldn't have to worry about having to make love to him. Right?
You Are A Cold Turkey,
And Your Reason IsTotally Stupid!

Answer 3

2 or 3 or 4 times a week is NOT excessive. You should be happy that he wants to make love to you.

Answer 4

You can spend your time and try and find a number he likes or cut to the chase and wear him out go for 2-3 a day for a week of two. Believe me he will get his fill quicker than he thinks and then HE'LL BE HAPPY WITH ONCE A WEEK.

Answer 5

How do you justify "rationing" intimacy? He tied his life to yours. Promised you fidelity. In terms of sexual satisfaction, you are the only one he can look to honorably to meet his needs and fulfill his desires. But doing so is a chore for you? An inconvenience you'd like to schedule infrequently?
The truth is, it's not just the lack of frequency that bothers him. It's the lack of intimacy. Even in bed, you're not giving all of you to him gladly, eagerly and without reservation. You've turned the most wonderful, most intimate, most private part of marriage into a duty; and stolen his joy.

You don't even know what love is.

Answer 6

Sorry had to laugh about this - because I am a true scorpion, which means I never seem to get enough either - -I guess I'm more like your husband. . my fiance is a Libra and he says what you're saying "when is it enough?" smile. . I guess some of us have a higher sex drive than others. .

Answer 7

If he wants that much then he can get that much. You dont have to be the one giving it all the time. If my husband wants it he takes it. I like that cause he gets me in the mood. I enjoy it no matter how many times it is. Enjoy your husband love to you!!!

Answer 8

you could give it to him 4 times a day and he would still want more if he thought he could get you to do it. You need to think about yourself and how much you want it and go by that.

Answer 9

Tell yours like I tell mine, you pull it out of your pants one more time this week then you aren't going to touch me for at least another week.

Mine has started to listen. Again, relationships are about compromises and we can never get what we want all of the time.

If that doesn't work, tell him that for every time he gets it, you are going to mall and getting "yours" of choice! : )

Answer 10

you need to find a good compromise for both of you. If he needs it, then you need to provide it for him as much as possible.

my husband is the opposite. he's the one with the low sex drive.

I'm the one who wants it more. It's important not to ignore your husband's needs. See if you can compromise.