I am married the guy I had an affair with is also married. We met through sports and all of us became friends. I have never even thought about cheating on my husband ever dont know why I did. he pursued me and came right out and said if you asked me over there i would be there. I ended up meeting with him a few times, then nothing for a few days. Then found out by his wife she was divorcing him, i was like OMG! dont know why he didnt tell me. anyways i figured that is why he stopped. then i would call to chat and he seemed to be blowing me off. I would of thought a little time would pass we would continue. but nope. Then he started not returning my calls and saw him at the gym just to get a wave? have no idea so it made me call more. told him i wanted to talk, well then he really brushed me off. I finally told him i was deleting his number that it wasnt nice the way he was treating me and still nothing. saw him today all he did was kinda smile, dont get it. was a sure thing he wanted
2006-10-19 06:48:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's doing what you should be doing, running the other way. He wanted some sex, got it, now it's over. Move on.
2006-10-19 06:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldn't call him anymore him and his wife are probably trying to work Thur it and it sounds like your the problem you need to step back and see what you are doing to your own marriage and see if it was the other way around would you want him to still call if you want a relationship with him maybe you should end the one you are in already
2006-10-19 07:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Christine R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're trying to figure out why the guy you cheated with, ended the affair?
Maybe he's embarrassed about having an affair. Maybe you should be too?
2006-10-19 08:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably either got back with his wife or found a woman that is not just a booty call. You were a sure thing for sex. As harsh as this will sound, most men think of the other woman as a whore. They are thinking that if you are having sex with them while you are married, who else with you have sex with. The game does not work the same as it does for men.
2006-10-19 07:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he needs space or maybe he is having 2nd thoughts. Delete his number and let it go for a little while and see if he comes around. Spend more time with your hubby.
2006-10-19 07:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be blind, you were just a conquest. Men look at sex differently than women. He is not attached to you he just want a roll in the hay. Get over it and be faithful to your first priority, your marriage.
2006-10-19 06:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your body sweat is going to the wrong man!!!
He's blowing you off cause you seem to be a damn stalker!!
Wish I knew your husbands phone number!!
2006-10-19 06:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? He doesn't want you anymore, you keep harrassing him. The only answer is to stop. He will be happy to never hear from you again. Just stop, ok.
2006-10-19 06:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. You got away with having an affair. He didn't. Just let him move on and you move on too.
2006-10-19 06:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by The One Truth 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋