i dont want our kids to share rooms. my kids have never had to do that, his kids have. am i being wrong or insensitive here. HELP!
2006-10-19 05:48:35 · 6 answers · asked by schnoz.berries 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You aren't being wrong or insensitive at all! If his kids have, that's ok, they're used to it so they wouldn't mind. If your kids haven't had to do that, they probably wouldn't like it much, but could probably get used to it. If you can find a place where your kids can have their own rooms, AWESOME! But if not, you may have to have a temporary room sharing going on with them. Like I said, they probably won't like it, but would get used to it. It would only work for awhile though. Kids definitely need their own rooms when they reach a certain age. Talk with your kids about it, see what they say?
2006-10-19 06:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are going to combine families, you pretty much don't have a choice unless you can afford a house big enough for all the kids to have their own rooms. Have the kids REALLY gotten to know each other? How do they feel about sharing rooms? Maybe they won't mind it so much. The two of you should talk to all the kids together and see what ideas they have, after all, they are the ones who will have to share rooms with each other.
2006-10-19 05:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by wilsonhutchison04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question here is not "to be or not to be" but "to move-in" or not to "move-in". How many kids are there, do they know each other well enough to move-in too? What are their ages? If there is no compatibility of any sort, lady, it's gonna be HELL. Furthermore, if the kids don't get along, your relationship might just come to an abrupt end. My honest recommedation is to talk it over in a family council or assembly. Ask questions, set rules, whatever comes up will give you an idea of what to expect before hand. Watch out for attitudes from both sides.
2006-10-19 06:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by latinoldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are sort of wrong ( i am being gentle). i have never been in your situation. but i am married and i know that when u get married your life changes drastically. you both got to give and take. if both of your kids are going live together than its unfair to make his share a room and not yours. This is how resentment grows on all parties.
2006-10-19 05:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you can afford the difference in rent. Otherwise, there is no reason kids can't share rooms.
2006-10-19 05:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something that happens when you merge families. You sound selfish and not ready to move in together.
2006-10-19 05:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋