I love so much to one girl who one of my Best Friend.I couldn't tell her before because of she likes someone in her college.Yesterday she just realise indirectly that I love her but she was not sure with that, that's why she just told me,"I like someone in college, You are my Very Good Friend,Don't think extra, You are my Good Friend & I don't want to lose my Friend."
Please Help Me.........What should I do now?
Should I tell her about my Love or not?
2006-10-19 05:45:57 · 29 answers · asked by Roshan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Think she's already tried to explain to you that she values your friendship and doesn't want to lose it. Why bother and perhaps maybe someday down the road the two of you may try getting together. But why interfere with her current relationship and happiness by spilling your guts to her. All you'll end up doing is making her feel guilty and perhaps lose a friend. Life is too short and there are lots of other people who you can and will grow to think highly of also.
2006-10-19 05:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C'mon she is your friend and that makes her understand you.
And as you said she already knows that.
I think the better way or solution is to go on as you used to be and look over life with a new hope and differnt aspects,
You know life always changes and more quickly than seasons.
So why to lokk upon the past.
She loves someone else and she has been very kind to you be letting you knoe it.I guess she is a nice human beibg.
Continue your life lightly and if you cannot forget her dont force your self to do that cuase that will cause you trouble.
Just let your heart do whatever it wants and I think that time is the migicman and an excellent healer.
2006-10-19 12:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think, in this case, it's a matter of if you want to confirm what she assumed. On one hand, it could be awkward for you two, knowing outright how you feel. It's true, people sometimes act funny when they learn something new about someone else, including feels.
On the other hand, she did tell you how she feels. Are you accepting of the fact that she has someone? If you are, then you could possibly let her know something like, "Well, I do have feelings for you, but I understand that you have someone else, and I don't want to disrespect you, or our friendship." I'm not saying for you to say all of that, or even in that way. But IF you want to tell her, this is one way that you could. But that's if you FEEL that way, too. It's no use lying and breaking your own heart with however she responds.
I hope this helps a little!
2006-10-19 14:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, u will lose a very good friend. Sharing personal experience I have lost a very close friend just because our friendship was shattered by his expression of love. She can be a treasure for u but from a distance because the more u remain in close proximity...the more ur love for her will increase. Let her fly away, she will be yours only is she comes back, the moment u will clutch her, she will be gone forever. It hurts very much, to bury such delicate feeling for somebody but believe me its Hell to experience an unrequited love. God Bless U.
2006-10-19 13:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Leena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she has said, tells you what you should do. Keep her as a friend - find someone else to be your lover. Maybe she will even help.
Respect what she has said. You are a lucky guy that you know right now up front that there is currently no way.
When they string you along with such uncertainty, that's tough. Use your energy that you have for her, to find another one like her. Use your energy to improve yourself, so the next time Miss Right comes along, you will be Mr Right.
2006-10-19 12:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Isle Flyer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually it sounds like she knows that you do. I wouldn't tell her because you may push her away as a friend. She said not to think extra which means that she isn't interested in you. I know that hurts, but if you become a stalker you'll lose her as a friend. I'm sure you don't want to do that. Good luck to you and believe me you'll find someone else who feels the same way someday!
2006-10-19 12:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her, it will harm your friendship. If you don't tell her and accept her friendship, you can still love her. NOW.....if it's sex you're wanting from her and you can't settle for a great friendship, you'd better MOVE ON!! She's in a relationship and if you mess that up as well as your friendship, you're going to be a loser all the way around. There are many young women out there for you to have a romantic relationship with. This girl isn't one of them!!
2006-10-19 13:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just be like a good friend. Love comes automatically if it exist at both the ends. Do not take a chance and spoil the good friendship.
2006-10-19 13:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl is involved with someone and she thinks that you are one of your best friends then you shouldn't force her.Tell her how you feel but even then she doesn't feel that way then you shouldn't force her that you shouldn't force her to love you.
You will definately find another one.Never feel disheartened.
2006-10-19 14:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by drsau1in 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,you should tell her you love here because if you don't it will bother you for the rest of youre life and when you are married to someone else when you are older you will be thinking what if i told her you will be wondering for the rest of youre life so just tell her if she says she does not like you find someone else get into the dating stuff.I hoped my information helped.
Bye lover boy :)
2006-10-19 13:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋