Afternoon delight with him/her in your apartment and asks you to "please disappear" while they have fun, would you do it ?
2006-10-19 05:36:20 · 23 answers · asked by Latin Techie 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would not allow my apartment to be used, I don't condone cheating. You would be then put in a very bad situation with his/her spouse as well, which is not fair to you. I would politely decline and tell him/her that i did not want to know about it, and advice them to seek help for their marriage.
2006-10-19 05:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did it years ago when I was in my 20's. My uncle actually had a little lady that he was seeing behind my aunts back and asked to use my apartment. I allowed it and he supplied me with a case of beer. This marriage of my relatives ended shortly afterwards and I felt very guilty for having been a third party to this behaviour. To this day I feel very bad that I had allowed this to occur. So my advice would be to tell my friend to take their fling somewhere else and stay out of it altogether.
2006-10-19 12:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Golden rule, do not do what you don't want them to do to you. If you were the wife of the married man (this is only an example) how would you feel? You are condoning their act of lasciviousness and infidelity if you allow them to use your apartment. What do they think of your house a motel? Don't permit this to happen.
2006-10-19 12:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would disappear, to the persons spouse and Tell them what is up, bring that person back and let them be caught in the act. I don't condone cheating.
2006-10-19 12:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Just say no! That's rude for them to even ask, and wrong for them to be doing that and involving you in their affair. Besides, do you really want them in YOUR bed? If they are willing to do all that they are selfish and will leave their mess for you to clean up.
2006-10-19 12:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by kaydee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...i wouldnt do it. Your risking your head being bit off by their spouse because you lent them your house. Besides...its just really morally wrong...especially since YOU know about it! They cant really be a friend if they're asking you to do that!
2006-10-19 12:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Snap Skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would not let a friend use my home to conduct an extramarital affair.
2006-10-19 12:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not!!!
WHY?
#1 he is cheating
#2 they may leave stains oall over ur apartment that febreeze cant help...tell him no
u will have no part in it....get a hotel!
2006-10-19 12:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by vicgsugirl20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No a friend would not include you in such a horrid event.He should never even expect to bring her to your place.I would set him straight!!
2006-10-19 12:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by kr8zy k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. They have motels and hotels for that kind of thing. Why do I want their juices all over my house ?
2006-10-19 12:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋