I met the woman I am in love with at a time when she was in the ending part of a 3 year relationship. So technically we cheated... But I somehow feel no remorse because she is the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me and we've been seeing eachother for almost a year now..which shows me that its not just lust that brought us together. Do you think we could truly have a future together even though we started our relationship in a not so great way?
2006-10-19 05:29:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Obviously you are having doubts or you would not be here posting the question. however, if she cheated with you, chances are she will cheat on you. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-19 05:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Generally a good, trusting relationship cannot be based on lies, deceit, cheating so I would say that for most part the answer is no... Because you/the other person may always be suspicious about whether the other person is going to do the same thing i.e. cheat.
There are exceptions I guess but alot of the time it only results in pain/guilt/misery.
I did have a cheating relationship with a guy once (we both had partners) and we are the best of friends with no regrets or resentments, but we are not in a relationship. Our circumstances did not allow it.
2006-10-19 05:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no.
they say forbidden love has a shelf life that lasts a little longer 2-3 months longer. But it is not a good foundation to start a relationship on. But good luck. Doesn't mean you can't try.
2006-10-19 05:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can change....but you are obviously having some type of doubts or you wouldn't be posting about it...i've always felt that if they cheated with you they will cheat on you if the opportunity presents itself....it's up to what you think/feel....do you trust her 100%??
2006-10-19 05:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it matters how it started. What matters is how you continue to deal with it.
If you're both happy then I don't see a problem.
We don't always choose wisely and maybe when she chose the man she was with when you met her she wasn't with who she was suppose to be with.
Don't stress over nothing. Enjoy what you have.
2006-10-19 05:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doubt it. There is no relationship without trust. This one was formed around broken trust and is doomed. Sorry but true.
2006-10-19 05:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What matters now is how you see yourself dealing with the issue and feel about it == Don't worry too much about it and value what you have and where you want to go with it.......Good Luck
2006-10-19 05:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Strangerinstrangeland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possible. But you would be beating enormous odds. People who cheat have deep issues that may come back to haunt you.
2006-10-19 05:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dozens and most of their husbands are away in the forces xxx
2006-10-19 05:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about trust. If you cannot trust each other-forget it.
2006-10-19 06:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋